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Message him if you want to and whatever happens happens.
I agree; early on, just contact someone and, if you do most of the initiating, so be it (so long as they reciprocate and are free to get together). After you go out a few times, there should at least be some initiation (of texts, emails, requests to go out, etc.) by the other party or it's a BRIGHT red flag. If, after going out a few times, they're ONLY responding to your texts, requests for dates, etc. and do not initiate dialogue at all, it's over.
This is what I always noticed whenever I talk to a new guy. I'm usually the one to always have to "message" him first whenever I log onto a website. Like I'll log on and see he's online and he doesn't message me I always have to do it.
Why do I always have to message the guys first? Doesn't that show that I am desperate, needy, etc.
Question for the guys: How should women respond to winks/pokes/nudges/high-fives/likes?
I think a woman should return the same if she thinks he's interesting/attractive.
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Originally Posted by Inebriated Duck
If he likes you he'll message. If he likes you but doesn't want to message, he's not committing very hard, I mean, it's just a bloody online message, not a phone call or a gift of flowers.
Also: EVERYONE CALL PHILOSOPHIZER'S NUMBER BEFORE HE TAKES IT DOWN.
There's also the middle ground where a guy sends an obvious stock or form message that he sends to all the women he writes to.
This is what I always noticed whenever I talk to a new guy. I'm usually the one to always have to "message" him first whenever I log onto a website. Like I'll log on and see he's online and he doesn't message me I always have to do it.
Why do I always have to message the guys first? Doesn't that show that I am desperate, needy, etc.
why does it make a woman look desperate if she does the initiating but not the other way around?
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