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Old 11-29-2012, 07:56 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Originally Posted by Chadd1014 View Post
I live beside and across the street from two different guys in their early 40's that live with their parents and have for the 20 years I've been here.

Two months ago I used this word asexual for the first time in my life when asked by a friend whats going on there?
I proceeded to tell him in 20 years no one has ever come to visit and they never leave the house except to go to work.

I'm not judging anyone but it seems a very lonely life.

And how is any of this your buisness? Take up a hobby or get a day job.
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Old 11-29-2012, 07:58 PM
 
Location: Sometimes Miami sometimes Australia
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I live beside and across the street from two different guys in their early 40's that live with their parents and have for the 20 years I've been here.

Two months ago I used this word asexual for the first time in my life when asked by a friend whats going on there?
I proceeded to tell him in 20 years no one has ever come to visit and they never leave the house except to go to work.

I'm not judging anyone but it seems a very lonely life.

Ask them if they masturbate. We can't get an answer here
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Old 11-29-2012, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Central California
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I have never been interested in having sex with anyone. I am heteroplatonic though. I wanted a girlfriend before but for the sake of hanging together and having romantic moments, like walking by hands etc. but I developed aromanticism as I failed in my attempts an I am now an aromantic asexual.

Yet not all asexual are aromantic and my disagreement with some of them is that they kind of want to introduce sex to their "looking for relationships" and for me that is just plain sexual, I don't understand why they want to be considered asexuals if they have an intent for sex. They claim they feel no attraction to it but that they feel curious. It is contradicting. i feel no curiosity for sex. At 29 how can I be curious about it I mam not that young anymore.
So basically, you couldn't get girls. Now, you're "asexual by choice."

That's the summary of this entire thread.
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Old 11-29-2012, 08:03 PM
 
Location: Sometimes Miami sometimes Australia
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So basically, you couldn't get girls. Now, you're "asexual by choice."

That's the summary of this entire thread.

Yeah, I think he had celibacy "thrust upon him".
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Old 11-29-2012, 08:08 PM
 
Location: North of 60
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So basically, you couldn't get girls. Now, you're "asexual by choice."

That's the summary of this entire thread.
Good catch. Then he went on to say he was never scorned by a woman at any point.

I think we're being trolled!
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Old 11-29-2012, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Tampa, Florida
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So basically, you couldn't get girls. Now, you're "asexual by choice."

That's the summary of this entire thread.
Aromanticism and asexuality are NOT the same thing. I developed AROMANTICISM. I never chose to be asexual. I always was. Asexuals can still pursue relationships.
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Old 11-29-2012, 08:11 PM
 
Location: Tampa, Florida
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Expand your minds. Sexual orientations are NOT a choice. I am celibate of course, because I am aromantic; or do you think a person is sexual just because of romanticism?
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Old 11-29-2012, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Aromanticism and asexuality are NOT the same thing. I developed AROMANTICISM. I never chose to be asexual. I always was. Asexuals can still pursue relationships.
Cool story bro.
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Old 11-29-2012, 08:16 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Originally Posted by Chadd1014 View Post
I live beside and across the street from two different guys in their early 40's that live with their parents and have for the 20 years I've been here.

Two months ago I used this word asexual for the first time in my life when asked by a friend whats going on there?
I proceeded to tell him in 20 years no one has ever come to visit and they never leave the house except to go to work.

I'm not judging anyone but it seems a very lonely life.
Who's more weird: the guy that had nobody visit him in 20 years....or the guy that watches this other guy for 20 years and then posts about him in a forum?
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Old 11-29-2012, 08:18 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Expand your minds. Sexual orientations are NOT a choice. I am celibate of course, because I am aromantic; or do you think a person is sexual just because of romanticism?

...and you're wasting your time with majority of people on here. it's a big joke to them. but if you want to make a thread about how many people you f*ked, pretty sure that would get some serious responses, usually does.
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