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That is a tough list for a dude in his 40's.... I have 2 of the 3, but men like me are rare..........not braggin or anything... just saying....
The childless is a definite dealbreaker, the never married is pretty much a dealbreaker except in extreme cases (like he was civilly married)and the Catholic is pretty strong too but I could bend on this if he has the other two and is open to going to church.
Some never married women in their 40s are happy with their personal lives, and some are not. That you can't accept that and instead sling a personal insult at me doesn't help your protect of modern-day feminism very much. You really can't see how bad this makes you look? Do you really think I am the bitter one here?
I am not bitter Onglet. It's merely an observation based on the past few months of your posts.
I generally agree, except I don't think you have to wait til marriage, but if you wait a bit, it at least weeds out a lot of guys right off of the bat......
You think? I don't think; I know what the Bible says about this and so many people would have so much less trouble in their lives if they would read the Bible and use it as a guide. People like to disregard the Bible and think they know better, but they don't and they end up unhappy because people that cannot listen have to learn the hard way. Sex was never meant to be outside of marriage. And sex is between a man and a woman otherwise the body parts don't match. It is just common logic.
You don't have to date men with children - but it would be nice if you stop talking about how you detest them and what scum they are. I don't think anyone has an issue with you being really picky - that's all fine and dandy - but you don't have to be so cruel to everyone else. It's just not necessary.
The only ones I call scum are the men who have several out of wedlock children and I stick by this. Divorced dads just don't fit what I desire and no interest in being a stepmom or supporting his other family.
Their daughters did and do have a better life. They have the freedom to choose. The fact that some women don't have a man in their 40s isn't because they chose their career. Many women have a career AND a husband...and oh my god they even manage to have kids as well. I work with these women. The women in their 40s who don't have a man have seldom NEVER had a boyfriend, they just haven't had a successful long term relationship.
You have such a skewed view based on your bitterness at your inability to score yourself a decent guy. Don't blame feminism for your own failures.
That's exactly it, many women are single because they refuse to settle and didn't care if they married. I know several women who are very happy they are single at 40 or above. I've had several relationships but I knew none of them had what I desired in a marriage.
You think? I don't think; I know what the Bible says about this and so many people would have so much less trouble in their lives if they would read the Bible and use it as a guide. People like to disregard the Bible and think they know better, but they don't and they end up unhappy because people that cannot listen have to learn the hard way.
Take it to the religion forum.
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Originally Posted by Idon'tdateyou
The only ones I call scum are the men who have several out of wedlock children and I stick by this. Divorced dads just don't fit what I desire and no interest in being a stepmom or supporting his other family.
You also call obese people disgusting. You just don't need to call people names and talk about them so cruelly. It's just not necessary.
You think? I don't think; I know what the Bible says about this and so many people would have so much less trouble in their lives if they would read the Bible and use it as a guide. People like to disregard the Bible and think they know better, but they don't and they end up unhappy because people that cannot listen have to learn the hard way. Sex was never meant to be outside of marriage. And sex is between a man and a woman otherwise the body parts don't match. It is just common logic.
I can respect that.
I am not a Christian myself, but the basic tenets, if followed properly, are actually useful...... I think a lot of people abuse religion and treat it like an a la carte buffet.......JMHO as always....
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