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Old 12-02-2012, 03:51 PM
 
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Originally Posted by lpfan921 View Post
That's for sure. And you have made it very clear that you have no sympathy or compassion for the unfairness I have experienced. Hopefully someone else will. For someone who claims to be a nice person, you sure do have a lack of sympathy for men who struggle in the dating world.
Perhaps because she doesn't consider it unfair that you can't have sex/relationships with the gals you want as gals don't owe you sex or a relationship.
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Old 12-02-2012, 03:52 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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...

Yes, the above story is real and it happens.

...
Sometimes. For both men and women.

[but I wouldn't worry about it 17 years later...]
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Old 12-02-2012, 03:55 PM
 
Location: NYC
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LADIES -

DON'T LIE - How about an honest answer?

You know a guy at 17 and he is unimpressive, and maybe socially stunded. Twenty years later, he looks good, he is educated, he has a good job, and he is conversant (B- to B) but not "way cool," would you (a) seriously consider him, and (b) would you be hemmed in by the prejudices of you and your peer group?

LET'S HEAR IT. NO SUGARCOATING.
No woman would remember her so-called "prejudices" about an unimpressive, non-social guy who barely registered 20 years prior. It would almost be like meeting for the first time.
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Old 12-02-2012, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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This thread is a blatant violation of the Prime Directive.
I think it is a blatant cryfest.

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Old 12-02-2012, 04:05 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Being nerdy and not social is a choice. The guy has no one to blame but himself for not getting the hot girls when he was younger.
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Old 12-02-2012, 04:06 PM
 
Location: Central California
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I think it is a blatant cryfest.

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That's every thread on this forum, bro.
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Old 12-02-2012, 04:07 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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but even the most butt-ugly women I know of could have several partners at the snap of a finger if they wanted to.
Get seriously real! Where is the truckload-of-cr@p emoticon when we need it?
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Old 12-02-2012, 04:11 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Get seriously real! Where is the truckload-of-cr@p emoticon when we need it?
You are both correct but are talking about different successes. He is talking about getting laid by a partner, and you are talking about getting a healthy relationship partner.
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Old 12-02-2012, 04:13 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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You are both correct but are talking about different successes. He is talking about getting laid by a partner, and you are talking about getting a healthy relationship partner.
No, I'm not. I'm talking about ugly women supposedly being able to snap their fingers and come up with partners of any sort, for ONS, LTR, or whatever.
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Old 12-02-2012, 04:20 PM
 
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You were the cute 20 something that turned every guy down because you thought you were so cute. You slept around and got drunk every weekend. You were one of the "cool girls" in high school and college. You never gave the "nerdy guy" a chance.


WAIT A MINUTE.............FAST FOWARD


Nerdy guy is now 37 and he's no longer nedy looking, he's transformed his body to a lean muscle machine and he's spent the last 15 years working on his career and building his business. He now earns a high 6 figure income and is well traveled.


Oh, wait a minute............NOW YOU WANT HIM.

No, I don't. He's still the nerd from high school. Nothing's changed, except his bank account and physical appearance.

But on the INSIDE, the geek is STILL a GEEK.

Not that I was one of the "cool" girls or anything.
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