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The power scenario only applies to singles. Once you are in a relationship that should go away(hence the word should). If you are a single gal you know that you have the power but as soon as sex takes place that goes away. I never met a girl who didn't get attached after hooking up or sex. If you really fall for one another all that power crap goes away.
On a side note, I was on a dating site reading through women's profiles and after about 20 or so profiles I came to the conclusion that most of those women 'were' all about how much a guy makes, but afraid to admit it. You can see it in the way they talk. For instance I went to one girls page and she said, "I'm not lookin for no more games, I want a man who's stable, and who can make me laugh"...Just in that statement right there the word 'stable' stands out to me. [/quote] She says she's "not lookin for no more games", and "stable" is the word that stands out to you? Why are you even reading the profile of someone who says they're "not lookin for no more games"?
Oh well.....
Forgive my tiny female brain. These big ol' boobs just really make thinking difficult.
Oh wait, I'm going all City Data. What I meant to say was ...
Rob, I'm not trying to start anything. I'm really asking. Your answer does not say anything. There are no words here to explain what I asked for. I didn't say you hate women; I said nothing negative. Relax. I just really want to know what you see as "logical," because I see his reply as kinda ... scary.
I have no idea why you would take what I said about not "getting it" (Lickety's statement) as an attack or in an offensive way. It's just a fact, sometimes people do not know everything in life. I admit to that on occasion too, so I think your pride may have made you feel this way which is a normal human emotion.
Now my reply to this recent post of yours. Let's analyze what Lickety said and I will give my explanation to it. If I'm wrong about his intentions I hope he will point out and explain the intentions of his post, but here is what I think it meant.....This is the main portion of his comment I agree with.
"Women are like floor tile: lay 'em right the first time and then you can walk all over 'em for the rest of your life. (If one is so inclined. Mind, I don't condone this behavior.) Ever notice how common it is for a woman to stay in an abusive marriage? You hardly ever see a male do that."
After reading this again, the logic speaks for itself. No need to explain this. This is a true statement, if it's not then why is it that women are way more likely to stay in abusive relationships compared to men?
On a side note, I was on a dating site reading through women's profiles and after about 20 or so profiles I came to the conclusion that most of those women 'were' all about how much a guy makes, but afraid to admit it. You can see it in the way they talk. For instance I went to one girls page and she said, "I'm not lookin for no more games, I want a man who's stable, and who can make me laugh"...Just in that statement right there the word 'stable' stands out to me.
She says she's "not lookin for no more games", and "stable" is the word that stands out to you? Why are you even reading the profile of someone who says they're "not lookin for no more games"?
Oh well.....[/quote]
Why shouldn't I read a profile such as this? Are you saying that I should just take people at what they look like instead of finding out what they're about? Reading dating profiles is part of finding someone to relate to, and be compatable with. I just happened to stumble across a bunch of profiles that used key words like 'stable' in them. I weeded these people out because I saw thier true intentions, so thank God I did read these profiles because it would have been a waste of my time to message them without knowing they were into the 'stable' thing since no woman would consider me 'stable'...lol..Hell, I pay the rent and my bills on time, but since I work pizza delivery and can't find a job with my degree I am not considered a 'stable' individual which I find really stupid. I think these women who are looking for a 'stable' individual are mentally 'unstable' and out of touch with the reality of this economy.
The power scenario only applies to singles. Once you are in a relationship that should go away(hence the word should). If you are a single gal you know that you have the power but as soon as sex takes place that goes away. I never met a girl who didn't get attached after hooking up or sex. If you really fall for one another all that power crap goes away.
You explained what I was trying to say more clearly. I have so many thoughts come into my head at once that sometimes it's hard communicating and getting things out the way I want, but you made my theory a little more clear.
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