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You find me saying that I strike out with women, just like any other guy, arrogant? Interesting. I may have lost plenty, but I also have more than enough, and the best part.....drum roll.....Its all easily replacable, if you know what youre doing.
Do you tell that to your girlfriend? That she can be easily replaced?
I wasn't speaking in reference to what I would do now - I was speaking in reference to what I would do when I was 21 years old. I'm happily married with a child - so of course I wouldn't go home with someone now! Even when I was young - the closest I ever got was leaving a couple of parties with someone. This was after spending at least a little bit of time with them and knowing that they were a friend of a friend - and not a complete stranger. And even then we just fooled around - I never slept with someone I didn't know. I had my fun - and there were perhaps a few guys that I never got to know very well - but the majority of the guys I dated were all really great people - and not some sleaze ball expecting me to go home and have sex with him within a few minutes of talking to me.
Dew, the dating game is nothing like what it was when you were 21, thus making your ramblings about what you would do when you were that age, completely irrelevant to our conversation. Thanks for trying though.
Well, just like any other poster on here, Im only sharing my perspective. If we all bvelieved the same things, there would be nothing to discuss and life would be ultimately boring. However, there is only ONE TRUTH and it is not subjective in the least.
Totally off-topic tangent but...
Since there is only one truth, shouldn't we all agree on it? Or do some people have to be wrong just to make things interesting?
To be fair, you as long as you've been here have time and time again have used your personal stories to reflect the world. Your NO DIFFERENT, except for the fact you believe your right and he's wrong(which is your right to do so)
My frequent refrain tends to be that the human experience is diverse, and there are all kinds of people out there. I don't say that everyone fits one template, unlike some of the men here. If there were no diversity, everyone would be into the frat/sorority scene in college, OR everyone would be geeks. But that's not the case, is it? I'm surprised some people view this as an arguable point.
Ok, even if it were true, which it isnt, then you couldnt really blame me for it, could you? Just like any other man on this earth, I just need her to be beautiful and arent affraid to say so. You have no idea how many young women, want exactly that and how they avoid being treated politely and guys who tryu, like a damn plague. Ask the nice guys, theyll tell you.
Most of the nice guys I know aren't avoided and treated like the plague.
Most of the self-proclaimed nice guys I know are avoided and treated like the plague and it doesn't have anything to do with him being 'nice' or treating gals politely.
Do you tell that to your girlfriend? That she can be easily replaced?
Nope, but I think she knows it. Its the only way for a man to be happy in any relationship, ability to walk away from it at a drop of a dime. Sad, isnt it?
Well, just like any other poster on here, Im only sharing my perspective. If we all bvelieved the same things, there would be nothing to discuss and life would be ultimately boring. However, there is only ONE TRUTH and it is not subjective in the least. You must spend time and effort seeking it, if you really want to find it. So unless you have spent as much of time and effort seeking it as I have, I will feel entitled to announcing it all the same, because in reality Im closer to it, than you are.
Dew, the dating game is nothing like what it was when you were 21, thus making your ramblings about what you would do when you were that age, completely irrelevant to our conversation. Thanks for trying though.
Most of the nice guys I know aren't avoided and treated like the plague.
Most of the self-proclaimed nice guys I know are avoided and treated like the plague and it doesn't have anything to do with him being 'nice' or treating gals politely.
You must live on a different planet with Ruth, because nice guys in todays dating world are completely ignored and never given a chance.
Nope, but I think she knows it. Its the only way for a man to be happy in any relationship, ability to walk away from it at a drop of a dime. Sad, isnt it?
It's sad that YOU think so. I hope one day you find someone that makes you realize that you were wrong. Love can be a truly wonderful thing when you experience it.
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