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Originally Posted by reed067
The women I'm dating now does this she tried to end our relationship twice now. I told shes not getting away that easy though & in all reality she could just block me from calling her & that would be it. Instead she calls me & says she can't do this anymore.She knows I always talk her out it & then she is happy that I didn't let her walk, Her best friend told me that she can be self-destructive when it comes to being with some one. It's hard to deal with at times I am hoping as we go along she will seek help for this problem. Her step sister is OCD & bi-polar. Not sure if that carries over to her though. In the end if you care for someone you learn to deal with it. No? She knows that I would never hurt her in any way but like you said it sounds like she doesn't feel that she deserves to be happy & isn't sure how to handle it. But it is like you said she tries to end it because she feels it can't get any better.
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IME, when a woman tries to get out of a relationship, I will now and moving forward always let her leave. Especially if it is early in the relationship. Relationships are not easy, and if you have one person who wants out every other month, then it isn't working for them. Arguements, and disagreements are one thing, but trying to end it ?
Good luck, IME those NEVER end well. And the one that fights the hardests to keep the relationship together gets burned pretty bad.
Hopefully things work for you two though, it would be great to hear of a relationship that overcame obstacles and resulted in happiness!