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Old 12-12-2012, 09:00 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Originally Posted by Skydive Outlaw View Post
Institute Against Single Mommies Going Out And Dating Again After Having Kids That They Should Be Focused on Raising of America.
What about the dads, should they give up dating until the kids are grown? Are you also starting the Institute for Responsible Fatherhood and Against Daddies Dating Til Their Kids Are Grown?

Are the guys here thinking before they post?
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Old 12-12-2012, 09:02 PM
 
Location: My House
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Yea pretty much. Only desperate guys would want to put gas in a car someone already totaled
Only guys with low self esteem.

You date ANYONE based on compatibility.

I had my eldest as a single mom (age 22). Intentionally. His dad and I agreed that I was a far better parent.

His dad paid child support, I went on with my life. I worked. I finished college.

I dated. I married. A secure man.

It's not all black and white. Some of us are good earners. Self supporting.

Where do you people socialize to be calling women "goods?"

The hell???
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Old 12-12-2012, 09:03 PM
 
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What about the dads, should they give up dating until the kids are grown? Are you also starting the Institute for Responsible Fatherhood and Against Daddies Dating Til Their Kids Are Grown?

Are the guys here thinking before they post?
No. They are clearly not thinking.
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Old 12-12-2012, 09:07 PM
 
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Nah.

A girl in her early to mid teens with a couple of kids I would think is more damaged than the 20 something adult.
I've seen a 17 year old girl struggle with a 5 year old, a 2 year old and a newborn all from three different fathers.
17-5=12. So, girls are having babies at 12, now?? So they're getting pregnant at 12 or 11? That's very dangerous. Girls having kids that young in the developing world commonly end up with torn-up insides, and fistulas.

These girls are playing dolls, but with live kids.
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Old 12-12-2012, 09:42 PM
 
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What about the dads, should they give up dating until the kids are grown? Are you also starting the Institute for Responsible Fatherhood and Against Daddies Dating Til Their Kids Are Grown?

Are the guys here thinking before they post?
Nope and yet it is fine to call women names but not men. One only needs to see that my thread about dads (and I use that term loosely)with multiple baby mamas was deleted but this horrendous one keeps going on and on. I guess I shouldn't be surprised with all the misogynist men here.
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Old 12-12-2012, 09:49 PM
 
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Nope and yet it is fine to call women names but not men. One only needs to see that my thread about dads (and I use that term loosely)with multiple baby mamas was deleted but this horrendous one keeps going on and on. I guess I shouldn't be surprised with all the misogynist men here.
I was wondering why it was deleted also. I'm sure the attitude of your typical 20 yo man is represented quite well in this post. It's no surprise men in there 20s have this stance on women with children. They're young and free and dating a woman with kids is a foreign concept to them.
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Old 12-12-2012, 09:53 PM
 
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It's no surprise men in there 20s have this stance on women with children. They're young and free and dating a woman with kids is a foreign concept to them.
Getting women pregnant doesn't seem to be a foreign concept to some of them. I wonder if their attitude toward single women with kids change after they've created that situation? Or if they're derogatory toward unmarried mothers because of their own guilt? There's a psychological aspect to this bashing...
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Old 12-12-2012, 09:57 PM
 
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It's part of society where many 20 something men have this attitude they deserve whatever they want even if it hurts others, especially women. I don't get it at all and it infuriates me because attacks against single moms is fine but if men who impregnated these women are discussed people defend them. Why I don't know because single moms are not as awful to me as single dads who avoid responsibility.
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Old 12-12-2012, 10:00 PM
 
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Why I don't know because single moms are not as awful to me as single dads who avoid responsibility.
I heard Skydive Outlaw is starting the Institute for Responsible Fatherhood. Maybe you'd like to join, and become the VP?
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Old 12-12-2012, 10:01 PM
 
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Getting women pregnant doesn't seem to be a foreign concept to some of them. I wonder if their attitude toward single women with kids change after they've created that situation? Or if they're derogatory toward unmarried mothers because of their own guilt? There's a psychological aspect to this bashing...
I don't know any 20 year old men with kids but I wonder if the ones that have kids have the same behavior?
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