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Old 12-09-2012, 06:45 PM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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I wonder what happened, too?

I was going to say he should tell her that he doesn't hold it against her that she took advantage of him when he was drunk.
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Old 12-09-2012, 07:28 PM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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I wonder what happened, too?

I was going to say he should tell her that he doesn't hold it against her that she took advantage of him when he was drunk.
LOL!!
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Old 12-10-2012, 12:44 PM
 
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OP How did it go? Did you two get past this?? Updates are always appreciated.
Update: We didn't really see each other much this weekend. I had a date Friday night and she had a date Saturday night.

Last night, she came home, after drinking. We cuddled on the couch for a bit and went into her room. Fooled around a bit, but no sex. Had like a 2 hour conversation about how this is going to mess us up. I admitted to having feelings for her and she smiled, but didn't reciprocate.

I'm thinking I'll need to find a new spot to live...
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Old 12-10-2012, 12:48 PM
 
Location: Westminster, CO
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Damn man, tough spot. I hope you manage to get through it.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:46 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Update: We didn't really see each other much this weekend. I had a date Friday night and she had a date Saturday night.

Last night, she came home, after drinking. We cuddled on the couch for a bit and went into her room. Fooled around a bit, but no sex. Had like a 2 hour conversation about how this is going to mess us up. I admitted to having feelings for her and she smiled, but didn't reciprocate.

I'm thinking I'll need to find a new spot to live...
This made me LOL. Not that I think its funny you are in a predicament, but you have to agree it is kind of funny. If you can't find humor in the situation then you probably wont ever make it out of life alive.

I think you probably took it a little too far by saying you liked her. You should have left it at cuddling and saying good night. Just take things slow the next few weeks, including NO cuddling.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:52 PM
 
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This made me LOL. Not that I think its funny you are in a predicament, but you have to agree it is kind of funny. If you can't find humor in the situation then you probably wont ever make it out of life alive.

I think you probably took it a little too far by saying you liked her. You should have left it at cuddling and saying good night. Just take things slow the next few weeks, including NO cuddling.
100% agreed.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:56 PM
 
Location: Boston
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Update: We didn't really see each other much this weekend. I had a date Friday night and she had a date Saturday night.

Last night, she came home, after drinking. We cuddled on the couch for a bit and went into her room. Fooled around a bit, but no sex. Had like a 2 hour conversation about how this is going to mess us up. I admitted to having feelings for her and she smiled, but didn't reciprocate.

I'm thinking I'll need to find a new spot to live...
Yep.
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Old 12-10-2012, 02:01 PM
 
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Its not going to happen overnight.
Some women know they are pregnant almost as soon as they conceive. I know it sounds weird but this is some of the power women have in the biological realm. It's not unheard of.
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Old 12-11-2012, 01:58 AM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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Any ideas on how to make it less awkward at home?
Have a few more drinks and go at it AGAIN!
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Old 12-11-2012, 02:49 AM
 
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Not to be captain obvious but a girl cuddles with you because she wants to in most cases. Moving might be an extreme solution to a problem that doesn't exist. Talk. Honestly, it really works.
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