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Old 12-08-2012, 06:03 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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A man who won't log off for a poke don't want one bad enough.
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Old 12-08-2012, 06:06 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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So, I'm sitting here...and there's this group of girls that are in my peripheral. I honestly didn't notice them until they looked over their shoulders and looked at me (two of them)...

And the prettier one of the group looked again, later.

I'm just about to get up and leave....

It's a community library and it's 3 girls. Can't just blind approach in those circumstances....

I don't feel like an idiot yet, but I'm going to in the immediate future.

Sucks, don't it?

You see what I mean? Girls are impossible, I swear...

Why will I not get this girls number? I need to know!
Because if her friends don't like you then your screwed. She has to have thier approval more then likey, that's why women hang out in groups.
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Old 12-08-2012, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Central California
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This should be a sticky.

People who whine all day on forums don't desire it badly enough to go out there and get it. Just admit you don't want a GF and be done with it.


OP, either do it or don't do it. What you're doing right now (indecision about what you want....then beating yourself up about it) is the worst thing you can do and way more difficult that simply approaching the girls.
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Old 12-08-2012, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Because if her friends don't like you then your screwed. She has to have thier approval more then likey, that's why women hang out in groups.
Women don't hang out in groups to weed out guys.

They hang out in groups because they're friends.
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Old 12-08-2012, 06:14 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Women don't hang out in groups to weed out guys.

They hang out in groups because they're friends.
Faith in humanity. Restored.
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Old 12-08-2012, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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Women don't hang out in groups to weed out guys.

They hang out in groups because they're friends.

Sorry working 10 years in nightclubs says otherwise. No matter what women say.
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Old 12-08-2012, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by dub dub II View Post
So, I'm sitting here...and there's this group of girls that are in my peripheral. I honestly didn't notice them until they looked over their shoulders and looked at me (two of them)...

And the prettier one of the group looked again, later.

I'm just about to get up and leave....

It's a community library and it's 3 girls. Can't just blind approach in those circumstances....

I don't feel like an idiot yet, but I'm going to in the immediate future.

Sucks, don't it?

You see what I mean? Girls are impossible, I swear...

Why will I not get this girls number? I need to know!
You didn't talk to her for a bit and ask for it. I feel you about not approaching girls in a pack, but it don't mean I don't look for an in-road such as a interesting book in common.
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Old 12-08-2012, 06:27 PM
 
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yeah the bad thing is that you don't have to woo the friends to get anywhere. They will see you and if you arn't good looking enough or what the friends would go for, then they won't approve and hence you won't get the girl you like. I think it's messed up you have to bbe attractive to everyone in the group just to get one person since not everyone has the same tastes obviously.
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Old 12-08-2012, 09:52 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Sorry working 10 years in nightclubs says otherwise. No matter what women say.

I'm here at the library right now, and i see a lot of groups of girls studying. Damn, they must all have the same idea.
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Old 12-08-2012, 09:59 PM
 
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You see what I mean? Girls are impossible, I swear...

Why will I not get this girls number? I need to know!
So, she's with her friends and you don't want to get her number. That makes women impossible? Nice logic. It's always easier to blame someone else, right?
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