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I'm far past caring what ugly people think of me, especially anonymous ugly people on the internet. I am who I am, and if everything came together for me to be thinner,that would be great. But that's not reality. I've accepted it and would just like to find women who like guys like me. I know they're out there.
And what are these things and why aren't they reality?
So you assumed I meant that the respondents are physically ugly, right? Even though I referenced anonymous internet people whose appearance I'd have no knowledge of? My supposed referring to people as physically ugly doesn't even make any sense in the context of my posts. Sounds like the (wrong) assumptions weren't made by me.
Ugliness is far deeper than the skin, as was displayed by many posters here.
It doesn't make one iota of a difference what you meant by ugly. You can't determine that unless you personally know everyone who responded to you negatively.
So did you check out those links or what? By the way, fascinating backpedaling.
It wasn't backpedaling at all. It was fact. If you choose not to believe that, so be it.
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Originally Posted by Stickytoffee
And what are these things and why aren't they reality?
None of your business. I asked a question. I didn't ask to be picked apart.
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Originally Posted by yayoi
It doesn't make one iota of a difference what you meant by ugly. You can't determine that unless you personally know everyone who responded to you negatively.
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The responses speak for themselves, don't you think? I asked a simple question, then voiced an opinion. Look over the personal attacks based on almost no actual knowledge of me, and ask yourself it that isn't a good definition of ugliness.
The simple fact that I'm having this conversation is a sign of ugliness. I'm done explaining or defending anything I posted. So you can all feel free to make some more assumptions in your next posts. I won't challenge them. Whatever makes you feel better about yourselves.
None of your business. I asked a question. I didn't ask to be picked apart.
That's going to be expected in a thread where you admit to be an largely overweight man who has no interest in an overweight woman
Honest answer here - 99% of thin/fit hotties will not want to date an overweight man unless they're gold diggers and you're extremely wealthy. Having a lot of charisma can help you overcome that as well
If you want to date a thin/fit woman, you just have to approach as many as it takes before one of them will want to date you. Online dating is going to be completely futile because it's primarily based on appearance and you don't even have a chance to establish yourself with your personality. I think if you put on matchmaker that you're a 250+ LB man looking for 110 LB women, you're probably not going to get a whole lot of hits
So there ya go, there are your options
- lose enough weight until you are fit/slender yourself
- date women who are as large as you are
- approach enough fit/slender women until one of them finally says yes (and realistically speaking, there's going to be a ton of rejection here)
Good for you! I proud that you have stuck up for who you are. There is nothing wrong with being big. If someone can't love you for WHO you are then they are loosing out! I hope you find someone very deserving. They are out there. Keep looking. God Bless!
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Originally Posted by vmaxnc
I'm far past caring what ugly people think of me, especially anonymous ugly people on the internet. I am who I am, and if everything came together for me to be thinner, that would be great. But that's not reality. I've accepted it and would just like to find women who like guys like me. I know they're out there.
The responses speak for themselves, don't you think? I asked a simple question, then voiced an opinion. Look over the personal attacks based on almost no actual knowledge of me, and ask yourself it that isn't a good definition of ugliness.
Bwah! Nice one. "Yes, I made assumptions, but (in my own opinion only), they turned out to be true (an assertion I've managed by roundly ignoring the good advice I was given), so therefore, it was okay for me to make assumptions. Just not other people, whether they end up being right nor not. Again, in my opinion, of course."
Christ you people, he's just trying to find out where he can find chubby chasers. They exist amongst both genders you know.
He was given tips and links. He chose to ignore any answers that were positive (ahem, you're welcome, OP). He started right out the gate insulting people in advance and it only went downhill from there.
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