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I never really understood the appeal of strippers or strip clubs. I mean, they're only there for entertainment purposes. It's just a job for them. Not to mention the price is ridiculous...if you're going to pay that much wouldn't you might as well just get an escort? My mates back home would always bug me to go to one of these things but I never did.
Strippers are for guys who like to emotionally bond first. Escorts are for guys who like to sexually bond first.
I used to go to strip clubs all the time in my early 20's. wasted so much money and time as I look back at it now, but I would say that she was just doing what most strippers do by being extra nice and making sure their customer/you feel like you are the only man in the world. On rare occasions strippers do hook up with customers and form a relationship, but just think about that for a minute. Let's say you were the miracle guy who got a stripper to be your girlfriend...Well after you have sex a bunch of times and have been with her a few months and the fun wears off and your life comes back to normal, you will probably get a little jaelous and insecure if she is still showing off all she can bare to random guys for money. Maybe she will stop stripping if she really loves you, but that is highly unlikely as I have heard that once you get into that lifestyle making that kind of money that it becomes addictive, so I see you having to compromise yourself and your morals down the road just to be with this chick which will cause you a lot of effort, energy, and some pain and trust issues. This isn't the ideal situation as there are always other guys she will run into who can offer her more, or at least make her beleive they can and most likely she will fall for their deception and you will get cheated on.
Good post here
Part of the reason I thought there could be something here is because the way I acted through the whole interaction was just awesome - I was super confident, I let her come to me and work for my attention, I acted with her the same way I've acted in the relatively few times in my life I've had great success with women (the few one night stands, the first 2 or 3 dates I went out with that girl 4 years ago). I could totally feel her getting more and more warm and comfortable being with me (she even said a few times, "I lost count of the songs because you're so much fun to be with"). Like I said, I'm in sales, I can usually feel when somebody is getting very comfortable with me and somebody is just putting on a good show. I know she's a stripper but she's still a person and I think I am a very good catch (with all things considered). In situations like that, where I acted the right way, why wouldn't she want to date me?
You are right in almost everything you said. I go back and forth about this but I'm not even sure if I would want to date somebody in that business. I think I was just so incredibly overjoyed to have a beautiful naked woman in my lap who seemed to like me so much + the fact that I finally acted exactly the way I want to act
Anyways, I just texted her about 7 hours ago "hey___ this is Dave. Last night was a lot of fun. I'm glad I made the trip out there". No response, I'm going to try again Thursday and then probably just erase her number
I was the "younger generation" at one time and in no way did our generation see it as you just described. Pretty disturbing IMO.
I am glad that some people think outside the box and don't just go with the flow since everyone else is doing it.
Also if I felt that insecure just calling someone to have a chat or ask them out...I would work on that before anything else. Something seriously wrong when that is too much for someone...it is normal human interaction.
Call her...it's not Rocket Science.
Like I said, your preaching to the choir here. My parents didn't think of it that way either. Times change.
All I can say is that I've found out the hard way that calling someone you just met, even if the initial encounter went well, is still too clingy for some people. They prefer that you text as it's less threatening. Once the rapport is there, once you've been on a few dates, then if you prefer, you can call.
Part of the reason I thought there could be something here is because the way I acted through the whole interaction was just awesome -I was super confident, I let her come to me and work for my attention, I acted with her the same way I've acted in the relatively few times in my life I've had great success with women (the few one night stands, the first 2 or 3 dates I went out with that girl 4 years ago). I could totally feel her getting more and more warm and comfortable being with me (she even said a few times, "I lost count of the songs because you're so much fun to be with"). Like I said, I'm in sales, I can usually feel when somebody is getting very comfortable with me and somebody is just putting on a good show. I know she's a stripper but she's still a person and I think I am a very good catch (with all things considered). In situations like that, where I acted the right way, why wouldn't she want to date me?
You are right in almost everything you said. I go back and forth about this but I'm not even sure if I would want to date somebody in that business. I think I was just so incredibly overjoyed to have a beautiful naked woman in my lap who seemed to like me so much + the fact that I finally acted exactly the way I want to act
Anyways, I just texted her about 7 hours ago "hey___ this is Dave. Last night was a lot of fun. I'm glad I made the trip out there". No response, I'm going to try again Thursday and then probably just erase her number
Anyways, I just texted her about 7 hours ago "hey___ this is Dave. Last night was a lot of fun. I'm glad I made the trip out there". No response, I'm going to try again Thursday and then probably just erase her number
Realistically what is she even supposed to say to that? Cool beans, bro.
I thought you were in sales? You are this passive with clients?
Part of the reason I thought there could be something here is because the way I acted through the whole interaction was just awesome - I was super confident, I let her come to me and work for my attention, I acted with her the same way I've acted in the relatively few times in my life I've had great success with women (the few one night stands, the first 2 or 3 dates I went out with that girl 4 years ago). I could totally feel her getting more and more warm and comfortable being with me (she even said a few times, "I lost count of the songs because you're so much fun to be with"). Like I said, I'm in sales, I can usually feel when somebody is getting very comfortable with me and somebody is just putting on a good show. I know she's a stripper but she's still a person and I think I am a very good catch (with all things considered). In situations like that, where I acted the right way, why wouldn't she want to date me?
You are right in almost everything you said. I go back and forth about this but I'm not even sure if I would want to date somebody in that business. I think I was just so incredibly overjoyed to have a beautiful naked woman in my lap who seemed to like me so much + the fact that I finally acted exactly the way I want to act
Anyways, I just texted her about 7 hours ago "hey___ this is Dave. Last night was a lot of fun. I'm glad I made the trip out there". No response, I'm going to try again Thursday and then probably just erase her number
What, exactly, is she supposed to respond to?
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