Poll for men: would you rather date an ex-stripper with 2 partners or a woman with 15 partners (girlfriend, love)

[whatisthedealwith]

Originally Posted by Doll Eyes

Okay well you and I are not on the same page at all, LOL. I am a virgin and advocate people doing whatever they want as far as these matters are concerned. I don't beleive women should have to kowtow to what men want when men don't do it for them. I don't see them limiting their sex partners so women will want them.... I don't agree with most of what these people do, but oh well, such is life....Um, I don't know why someone is a 'poor soul' because they have a sexless marriage, if that's what the 2 people want. Pushing this idea that people who sleep around are healthier, smarter, better, heroic or whatever, is B.S. and I'm the last person who's going to side with you on that one. So sorry.

I read the post about the woman in the sexless marriage. I think the PP was just saying that you should try out the merchandise before making the purchase. I feel sorry for her too. She did not want that. But that is another thread which I am sure you can read if you want.

But in this thread WHO CARES. Its foolishness to even ask these questions when you don't want to know the answer.

I do think that people who have more sex (and do it safely) are healthier and happier. Lots of evidence for this.
10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex

[Vic 2.0]

Originally Posted by RogersParkGuy

If you are dating a woman who is great in bed, you should say a silent "thank you" to all the men she slept with before you, regardless of their number and regardless of what your GF does for a living. People don't get good at sex without practice.

Why are we assuming it takes sex with numerous other men to learn how to satisfy one in particular? Maybe some men are satisfied with their wives'/girlfriends' sexual performance because they found a woman who wanted to satisfy them and stuck with her as she got better and better?

Do you have to practice with more than just one basketball to be good at shooting hoops?

[RogersParkGuy]

Originally Posted by Vic 2.0

Do you have to practice with more than just one basketball to be good at shooting hoops?

No, but you should practice with more than just one other player.

[Nairobi]

Is the fact that Woman A is a stripper supposed to be some sort of deal breaker for most guys?

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by whatisthedealwith

I read the post about the woman in the sexless marriage. I think the PP was just saying that you should try out the merchandise before making the purchase. I feel sorry for her too. She did not want that. But that is another thread which I am sure you can read if you want.

But in this thread WHO CARES. Its foolishness to even ask these questions when you don't want to know the answer.

I do think that people who have more sex (and do it safely) are healthier and happier. Lots of evidence for this.
10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex

I didn't read the post about the woman in the sexless marriage, b/c I don't remember seeing it. Obviously if you don't want that situation, don't get into it or get out of it if need be. But this 'test the merchandise' stuff is just as ridiculous. I know some women who had their merchandise tested numerous times and no man has felt compelled to buy. Big surprise there.

I was going off of his assumption that 2 people who have decided to not have sex, just must not be happy in that scenario. Well sorry to break it to him there's asexual couples who are doing just that......

Good for the evidence for it. People will always come up with great reasons for things they enjoy and the downside being less important for the things they don't, that's nothing new.... But don't assume two people can't be happy and okay in a sexless arrangement, just because it's not your personal choice.

[Nairobi]

Originally Posted by JustJulia

I think it's likely that the woman with 15 partners is being honest about her past, while the ex-stripper is not.

Don't be so sure. Being a stripper doesn't necessarily mean a woman has a lot of experience. In fact, I had a friend who was an exotic dancer and she was surprisingly a bit of a prude when it came to actual sex.

[Nairobi]

Originally Posted by RogersParkGuy

No, but you should practice with more than just one other player.

To shoot hoops, no, you don't.

[fightforlove]

Most American women have had at least 15 partners.

[Vic 2.0]

Originally Posted by RogersParkGuy

No, but you should practice with more than just one other player.

Not at all. All you need to practice with to please one person is that one person. And losing someone that can't wait for you to get "good" at the "game" is virtually no loss at all, IMHO.

[dejaentendu19]

Originally Posted by fightforlove

Most American women have had at least 15 partners.

By what age? I would think that is relevant. Are we just talking about single women in big cities?