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Old 12-10-2012, 01:04 AM
 
Location: Tha 6th Bourough
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I was just watching the show Cheaters, and this guy was cheating on his girl with some other chick. Well his girl was with the crew of Cheaters ready to go confront the cheating boyfriend who was out with the other chick. The guy's girlfriend automatically attacks the other chick and the two girls fight as the one girl keeps saying, "He's my f____ boyfriend!!!"

I thought about my exes who cheated on me after this, and in my case I chose not to fight the other guys because I realized that the women I was with obviously didn't love me enough to fight another guy for them. My situations were way more complex than cheating.

What would you do if you saw your lover with someone else and found out they were sleeping together? What have you done in the past if you have been cheated on? Did you fight or just leave, or something else?
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:09 AM
 
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What would fighting accomplish, other than the potential for an unwanted visit from the police?

You are talking about a physical altercation, right? Not my style.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:12 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I was just watching the show Cheaters, and this guy was cheating on his girl with some other chick. Well his girl was with the crew of Cheaters ready to go confront the cheating boyfriend who was out with the other chick. The guy's girlfriend automatically attacks the other chick and the two girls fight as the one girl keeps saying, "He's my f____ boyfriend!!!"

I thought about my exes who cheated on me after this, and in my case I chose not to fight the other guys because I realized that the women I was with obviously didn't love me enough to fight another guy for them. My situations were way more complex than cheating.

What would you do if you saw your lover with someone else and found out they were sleeping together? What have you done in the past if you have been cheated on? Did you fight or just leave, or something else?

I never been in that situation -- but I would NEVER fist fight another woman over a man. Yea, right, that's men's dream come true, two women ripping their hair out over him.

If he's sleeping with her, he can stay in bed while I pack and go. She can have him.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:13 AM
 
Location: Tha 6th Bourough
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You are talking about a physical altercation, right? Not my style.
Yeah, I just never understood why people went as far as to throw blows with someone over a person who you found out didn't love you as much as you thought. I mean I felt broken after getting cheated on by people, but never let the anger or pain cause me to ruin my own life over someone like that.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:14 AM
 
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A sign of emotional immaturity and illogical.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:16 AM
 
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Stop watching "cheaters".
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:16 AM
 
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I never been in that situation -- but I would NEVER fist fight another woman over a man. Yea, right, that's men's dream come true, two women ripping their hair out over him.

If he's sleeping with her, he can stay in bed while I pack and go. She can have him.
Yep, that's every mans dream - you figured it out.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:20 AM
 
Location: Tha 6th Bourough
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If he's sleeping with her, he can stay in bed while I pack and go. She can have him.
That's how I reacted to being cheated on...Why waste more energy on them
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:20 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Yep, that's every mans dream - you figured it out.

I don't know if that's meant to be sarcastic or not -- but it's been said time and again by other people long before me and that's because it's true. Most of them like to be in the middle of two women fighting over him. "Oh two women want me so bad they beat each other up, etc. etc." Thinks he's a real prize then.
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Old 12-10-2012, 01:22 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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That's how I reacted to being cheated on...Why waste more energy on them

yes, that's true. but a lot of people don't react like that, as you know they beleive in 'fighting for their man' or whatever nonsense. I have heard female friends say: "If I find out that bi*ch is messing with my man I will scratch her eyes out, etc." It's ridiculous, while he sits back and watches the fists fly.

edit: Now I have a question, I wonder if MOST men would engage another man in a fight over their woman? I don't know how they operate, maybe they don't care enough about either one for that, who knows.
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