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Old 12-14-2012, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Oh my word, did you just imply that a woman got rejected by a man?!
Blasphemer! You know that never happens!
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Old 12-14-2012, 04:24 PM
 
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Oh my word, did you just imply that a woman got rejected by a man?!

She's an attractive woman so the only men she's dating are men who have a ton of options. Of course you can get rejected by men who have a lot of options if you come across as a psycopath
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Old 12-14-2012, 04:25 PM
 
Location: Central California
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OP I'm completely and utterly baffled by this thread


Any attractive woman can post a message on any dating site and get 50,000 responses within a day


I'm assuming she goes on a lot of dates every week but turns them all off with her attitude? I've always been baffled by women who can't find a partner. Is it just a matter of being incredibly incredibly incredibly picky (which is totally reasonable) so you have a tiny dating pool? Or is it about having a wide dating pool but not being able to keep any man because you have a psycho personality

I actually agree with this.

I call bs. No way she has trouble getting guys to want to date her, ESPECIALLY if she's hot.
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Old 12-14-2012, 04:26 PM
 
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Blasphemer! You know that never happens!
How could I be so silly?
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Old 12-14-2012, 04:27 PM
 
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I actually agree with this.

I call bs. No way she has trouble getting guys to want to date her, ESPECIALLY if she's hot.

Thank you


I'm telling you, it's 3 things


1)She's a psycho

2)She's socially retarded and can't generate chemistry, so she turns down men for being boring

3)She's looking for something that's incredibly specific and almost impossible to find
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Old 12-14-2012, 04:31 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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I've seen dating experiments done just on online dating sites with guys posing as fake attractive women and they get about 50,000 responses seemingly in a day. Sure, some of those guys are not attractive enough/compatible enough in terms of appearance, age, etc... and some of them are just looking to get a laid but mathematically speaking, at least a small percentage of them have to be attractive, personable men with decent jobs and normal lifestyles looking for a girlfriend. How is it so hard just to date those men until one of them wants to be exclusive?


It's gotta be 3 things

1)A woman is socially retarded and can't generate any chemistry with normal, personable guys and then turns them down because she finds them boring

2)A woman is looking for something astonishingly specific

3)She's crazy and scares off men before there is a chance for something to develop


So which is it OP?


Any attractive woman can go on 7 dates a week off any online dating site, how can you not find a partner based on that?

I am pretty confident that I could find a girlfriend with just a few dates
I'm single. So I must be either socially retarded, too picky, or crazy then? You're single. What's wrong with you that you're single? By your logic it seem it is NOT your fault that you're single, but it is my fault that I'm single.

I'm wondering how you're going to get a girlfriend if you can't even get a date. Making a relationship work long term is MUCH harder than getting a date.
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Old 12-14-2012, 04:35 PM
 
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And now we enter the brahmabull twilight zone.


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Old 12-14-2012, 04:36 PM
 
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I'm single. So I must be either socially retarded, too picky, or crazy then? You're single. What's wrong with you that you're single?
LOL @ comparing men to women

This is things women have to fulfill

- Be attractive
- Be socially Competent
- Be normal

This is things men have to fulfill

- All of the above plus a laundry list of standards that's 50 miles long which varies for every girl
- Do all the work in the first 3 or 4 weeks of dating


As far as you are concerned, you seem like a pleasant person and you're attractive so I'm sure you can go on tons and tons of dates every week


What's wrong with the men you are dating? Are they not attractive enough or not interesting enough? Do they just want to have sex and don't want to commit? Do you find them attractive but they have a million options and want to go with somebody else?


In the giant pool of options that every attractive woman has, certainly a small percentage of men are going to be attractive, personable and interested in something serious. Are you turning those men down or are you just coming across as a crazy stalker type and you're turning them off?

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Old 12-14-2012, 04:42 PM
 
Location: Florida
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She needs a therapist, not a man.
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Old 12-14-2012, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Central California
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I'm single. So I must be either socially retarded, too picky, or crazy then? You're single. What's wrong with you that you're single? By your logic it seem it is NOT your fault that you're single, but it is my fault that I'm single.

I'm wondering how you're going to get a girlfriend if you can't even get a date. Making a relationship work long term is MUCH harder than getting a date.
I agree that brahmabull is single bc of his bad attitude and fear of approaching, but come on now. Everyone knows that girls have tons of options all the time.

If you're pretty, you get hit on a lot. You just don't like the guys that hit on you. If that's the case, then cry me a river.
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