To both Men and Women: Would you rather be the wealthy person that someone marries or marry a wealthy person? (marriage, husband)

[stilldriveem]

Neither one thanks!

[Ninetails]

Rather be the earner. That way I own it and If we break up
they can't take it all with them leaving me at square
one again.

[Seekingcreativity]

I want to be the wealthy person that decides to marry myself

[dub dub II]

Either works, but I can only control the first, so that's what I concentrate on.

But as long as the family is well taken care of, then it doesn't matter to me who contributed what, or how much.

Personally, wealth, defined in money, doesn't appeal to me as much as wealth defined by other metrics.

[Trimac20]

I'd rather be the one who marries the wealthy person. Then it's more likely she likes me for other reasons than money lol.

[BrianH]

Id rather marry a rich person, means I had to do less work. In this day and age I am OK with that =)

[Irishiis49]

Originally Posted by findly185

Id want to be the one with money, and the prenup.

This!

[calipoppy]

Neither. I would never marry FOR money and I would never want someone to marry me for my money either.

[dub dub II]

Originally Posted by calipoppy

Neither. I would never marry FOR money and I would never want someone to marry me for my money either.

If money can be define largely as resource gathering potential, you don't think that that should be an important consideration?

I mean, if the future coming to you is going to be rather expensive, wouldn't it be smarter to take that into account rather than, perhaps naively, marrying for fuzzy notions such as love?

[elnina]

Originally Posted by le roi

me, obviously. is this supposed to be a difficult question ?

If given only those two choices, then of course I want to be the wealthy person.
It would be my way not someone's else way...