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I actually kind of agree with this...shocking! There was a guy on here a little bit back who said he was a big guy but refused to date big women. I don't see how one overweight person can discriminate against another overweight person. Just seems really hypocritical. Like hey I want to sit around all day and eat junk food but I expect a partner who is fit and healthy. You can't ask someone else to have what you aren't willing to do for yourself.
Yea it's crazy... overweight people can be so picky sometimes! I guess they are content to be alone for awhile.
Yea it's crazy... overweight people can be so picky sometimes! I guess they are content to be alone for awhile.
I don't think they should just accept being alone, but they should find someone else on their level and not expect some super hot fitness buff is going to be all about them and then call them shallow when they aren't.
I don't think big girls have a right to call a guy shallow just because he prefers a thin girl.
I don't think a person can say they don't want to be judged based on appearance, and then judge others based on appearance.
I think a heavy woman has every right to believe that she is attractive and have whatever self esteem she chooses to have, and pursue men who are attractive to her. But just like with any human mating game, if her target isn't into her, she's gonna have to step back. But sooner or later, she'll find what she's after. Plenty of people on this planet believe themselves to be attractive, and yet are not universally attractive to all other people. I know as many people who find Angelina Jolie disgusting, as those who find her beautiful.
for what it's worth, I'm somewhat built and I like thick women. I gained weight past month or two but before that people were repeatedly commenting on how good I looked.
And in a year or so I'll likely be really buff, thanks to certain ergogenics if I can get my hands on them (used safely of course, only 1-2 cycles a year, most guys who screw themselves over are just being dumb).
If anything, I'd surmise that higher testosterone makes men like curves better. The whole skinny girl thing is a stupid cultural phenonenon in a stupid culture.
I mean it when I say that my ideal couple is a buff guy and a thick curvy girl, it represents enhanced dimporphism, that is, it's exaggurated looks. An extra curvy woman, an extra buff guy. It's extra. it represents vigor and OOMPH to me. I'm the kind of guy who doesn't just want to eat peanutbutter, I want BIG GLOBS OF PEANUT BUTTER. I don't want to play fetch with my dog, I want to wrestle with my dog! I LOVE rollercoasters, and would porobably love skydiving.
It's hard to put words to. Your basic Jungian life force if you will.
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