The overwhelming majority of threads on Relationships are started by men. (advice, friends)
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Because men generally have to do the chasing, statistically more will experience rejection. It's also usually the woman who initiates divorce. Women also generally have better support networks when it comes to dealing with rejection, loneliness or relationship problems.
So I'm not surprised that a lot of guys come here to vent or seek advice. They probably have no one else to talk to and society still expects you to "man up" rather than show any form of weakness.
Great post man, very true
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Originally Posted by usamathman
Read my next line....
No offense Brahma, but you seriously come off as one of those guys that fits the
low self-esteem category. I picked up it after only a couple of posts. Can you imagine how
fast some of these women can pick it up? They are like sharks when it comes to sensing fear and
desperation in a man.
Please do yourself a favor and get out and have some fun. Screw the relationship thing dude.
Just get out and start meeting people. And find you some friends that have the balls to tell you the
truth dude.
Oh boy another "make friends and meet people" post. How many times do I have to post that I go out all the time, make friends everywhere I go and have a very active social life?
Because men generally have to do the chasing, statistically more will experience rejection. It's also usually the woman who initiates divorce. Women also generally have better support networks when it comes to dealing with rejection, loneliness or relationship problems.
So I'm not surprised that a lot of guys come here to vent or seek advice. They probably have no one else to talk to and society still expects you to "man up" rather than show any form of weakness.
That's so true, when I went to get mine there were about 40 women in the court waiting room and 5 guys.
Because men generally have to do the chasing, statistically more will experience rejection. It's also usually the woman who initiates divorce. Women also generally have better support networks when it comes to dealing with rejection, loneliness or relationship problems.
So I'm not surprised that a lot of guys come here to vent or seek advice. They probably have no one else to talk to and society still expects you to "man up" rather than show any form of weakness.
I think more men turn to the internet for help than women.
As a woman, this is what you have to do to have tons of options
- Exercise a few times a week
- Take care of yourself
- Dress decent
- Don't act like a complete retard
That's all it takes
As a man, you can be good looking, rich, a great guy, in great shape and still be forever alone if you're a little bit shy or don't have friends who know a bunch of single girls. Women don't go on the internet for help because they don't need it
Oh boy another "make friends and meet people" post. How many times do I have to post that I go out all the time, make friends everywhere I go and have a very active social life?
You have a serious issue with rejection. Guys that have healthy social lives don't
normally say the things you have said. Like I said earlier.
Desperation will get you absolutely NOWHERE.
Neither will COMPLAINING. Get out there and make it happen
dude. If they don't want you then SCREW THEM. Keep it moving.
If I were your friend and we were beside each other I would SMACK THE **** OUT OF YOU.
Have some confidence in yourself dude. You are better than this.
As a woman, this is what you have to do to have tons of options
- Exercise a few times a week
- Take care of yourself
- Dress decent
- Don't act like a complete retard
That's all it takes
As a man, you can be good looking, rich, a great guy, in great shape and still be forever alone if you're a little bit shy or don't have friends who know a bunch of single girls. Women don't go on the internet for help because they don't need it
In theory, but what you're saying is pretty generic. If you want to be with a certain kind of person then you are going to have to be that certain kind of person yourself to be in proximity to begin with.
I think more men turn to the internet for help than women.
Right, most women talk to their friends about feelings, and what things are disturbing them in life.
Most guys find hard to express their feeling in real life, They hardly would talk about it in real life with another dude, not even close. In this point friendship between males is usually more superficial, about laughing, drinking and having fun, but they avoid showing weakness and of course wouldnt even consider talk about feelings in the ways women do. The easier way to have a release of those frustrations is turn on the computer and start threads...
In theory, but what you're saying is pretty generic. If you want to be with a certain kind of person then you are going to have to be that certain kind of person yourself to be in proximity to begin with.
What do you mean? I am not super demanding, just want somebody who is cute and a good person
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