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Yeah. That is exactly what I am saying. If the sex is bad, there is no chance for a relationship. I think guys need to learn that we are not ATM's. Times have changed.
Lets face it sex is a big part of a relationship and if it sucks then why bother.
So if you were to avoid me because of my unwillingness to spend.money on you before we had established a.relationship, would that make you a gold digger or worse?
I said avoid you because of what Jet said: you sound like yet another guy that equates getting sex with how much money you spend on the woman....in case it hasn't occurred to you, you should spend the money if that's what you WANT to do -- not because you're waiting for something in return. I wouldn't ever be a gold digger, because I don't get men to pay for anything, because of the mentality you displayed. I wouldn't even let him buy me a $2.50 Sunday newspaper let alone anything else. It's not worth it, if a woman can pay her own way, she needs to.
I understand why you feel insulted but I dont think jasper meant it that way. I agree with her/him/it though. Just chill out and take life as it comes for a while and see how things pan out. You're young, pretty and have a good job so I'm sure the right man will come along eventually. It might be next month or it might be next October, just be patient. You might even go so far as to take some "me time". Hang out with friends, learn a foreigen language, take violin lessons.
I said avoid you because of what Jet said: you sound like yet another guy that equates getting sex with how much money you spend on the woman....in case it hasn't occurred to you, you should spend the money if that's what you WANT to do -- not because you're waiting for something in return. I wouldn't ever be a gold digger, because I don't get men to pay for anything, because of the mentality you displayed. I wouldn't even let him buy me a $2.50 Sunday newspaper let alone anything else. It's not worth it, if a woman can pay her own way, she needs to.
To me, if you have not had sex yet you are still just friends. I am not in a habit of paying for my friends' dinner, drinks, coffee, etc. After you have sex, you can determine if this is a person worth pursuing a relationship with. Paying for a prostitue is fine, but that is just paying for sex.
I pay for my friends dinner, drinks, coffee etc. all the time... it's called being a good friend. They pay for me sometimes, I pay for them sometimes. I got a good bonus at work one year so I took a few of my friends out and paid for everything to say thank you for supporting me while I was working long hours.
I guess I don't do things just because I might get something in return, I do nice things for people because I like them.
I wonder how you feel about the number of sex partners a woman has had...because if most people slept with anyone who might be relationship material, the number would be quite high in many cases. I hope this wouldn't bother you.
Well the other guy called me tonight and said he just doesn't see things going anywhere...I guess at least he told me and didn't just ghost, but I seriously give up.
Well the other guy called me tonight and said he just doesn't see things going anywhere...I guess at least he told me and didn't just ghost, but I seriously give up.
I don't get it,you have a cool username,you come across nicely here and you're attractive.I'm stumped!
To me, if you have not had sex yet you are still just friends. I am not in a habit of paying for my friends' dinner, drinks, coffee, etc. After you have sex, you can determine if this is a person worth pursuing a relationship with. Paying for a prostitue is fine, but that is just paying for sex.
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Originally Posted by David Dollar
Yeah. That is exactly what I am saying. If the sex is bad, there is no chance for a relationship. I think guys need to learn that we are not ATM's. Times have changed.
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Originally Posted by David Dollar
So if you were to avoid me because of my unwillingness to spend.money on you before we had established a.relationship, would that make you a gold digger or worse?
Actually I am looking for a person that shows generosity. You have just confirmed that it isn't in your nature.
I don't get it,you have a cool username,you come across nicely here and you're attractive.I'm stumped!
The only thing I can think of (other than some quirk we don't know of) is the men that she is most attracted to have enough options that they aren't ready to settle down.
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