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Not trying to ask a totally weird question but I've had a lot of trouble trying to find my type and it hasn't really happened at all. I consider myself a below average African American 27 year old man living in America, but happen to love to travel to different cities nationwide in the U.S including both central & South America. Overseas as well but my looks is what all American girls are judging me as right now. I have felt like I need to bleach my black skin, change my eye color, get thinner lips, get rid of my nappy hair....all I attract is ugly fat ghetto girls which is a terrible thing right? The girls I'm attracted to will not give me the time or day. Why is that white women only love black men? Not Hispanic/Latin and Asian girls who like white men. I've read whiter skin is worshipped more in Latin/South America and Asia including phillipines. If I am getting this all wrong please someone tell me now if I'm wrong. Plus a worker of mine who's an Asian guy told me that white men can pursue Asian and Hispanic women because they are richer and black men are poorer. Which actually infuriates me.
You can get any girl you want, as long as she is about as attractive as you. Too many below average guys want to get an above average girl, and wonder why they can't ever get dates. I'm in IT, and this is a frequently discussed problem among disgruntled young guys. No man is entitled to a woman's feelings or body. You have to earn it, and women only respond to those on their level or slightly higher. That's how the world spins. I'm not trying to be a d*** about it, but it is a lesson that I have had to learn myself. I can't get the blond cheerleader prom queen, I'm too dark for that and very short. I'm below average height for men in the US. Almost all the women that I attract are 3-5 inches shorter than me, and that's fine by me.
I read some of your post posts too, and you don't seem to want to accept 99% of women outside of Europe and northern North America are not into interracial dating. In Asia, Middle East, and India, lighter skin is more desirable, but even then close to 99% of women in East, Southeast, and South Asian countries prefer their own countrymen, just the lighter skinned natives not "imports". And no it's not true that Latinas and Asian girls desire white men, that's more true if they were born and raised outside of their culture, like the US. Close to 99% of the foreign born prefer their/our own kind. The best luck you're gonna have are with 2nd or 3rd generation ethnic American women, especially so if you want the Indian
Last edited by theunbrainwashed; 11-20-2015 at 09:11 PM..
Perhaps your physical appearance is fine but your outward attitude could be a problem.
Could be anything. You can't be an ugly guy and expect to date the prom queen. I'm an "ethnic" so that automatically docks a point or 2 on the attractiveness scale in the US for me, as I'm sure the OP very well knows. An average looking white guy can date an average looking white girl, but a non-white has to be above average to accomplish that. Outward appearance is everything, especially if you are not northern European white
I went to south America and saw plenty of really feminine attractive black girls (not ghetto fat Americanized women), who would gladly date a decent black man.
You definitely do not need to make yourself look more White to attract a White woman. You just need to find a White woman who is attracted to your looks. If these women are not hot enough for you, that is your problem.
Not trying to ask a totally weird question but I've had a lot of trouble trying to find my type and it hasn't really happened at all. I consider myself a below average African American 27 year old man living in America, but happen to love to travel to different cities nationwide in the U.S including both central & South America. Overseas as well but my looks is what all American girls are judging me as right now. I have felt like I need to bleach my black skin, change my eye color, get thinner lips, get rid of my nappy hair....all I attract is ugly fat ghetto girls which is a terrible thing right? The girls I'm attracted to will not give me the time or day. Why is that white women only love black men? Not Hispanic/Latin and Asian girls who like white men. I've read whiter skin is worshipped more in Latin/South America and Asia including phillipines. If I am getting this all wrong please someone tell me now if I'm wrong. Plus a worker of mine who's an Asian guy told me that white men can pursue Asian and Hispanic women because they are richer and black men are poorer. Which actually infuriates me.
He lies the crux of your problem the rest of this post is superfluous. If you feel that you are below average that will come through and you will attract women that also feel they are below average. Work on the way you feel the type of woman you desire can also pick out a faker who is overcompensating.
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