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If he's got a ton of mulah and the only reason you're not attracted to him is because of his baldness then why not stay with him and try to convince him to get hair implants? Obviously he can afford it.
I met this guy a few weeks back. He's cool, nice, treats me well. He's been taking me out on dates and paying every time. He's wealthy, his family has money and he's the only son. He makes good money on top of it. He's educated and has a great career. He calls/texts everyday. We never had sex. Last time he wanted to but I said I wasn't ready. He was trying to convince me but I stick to saying no.
Ive noticed, every time we were out he was always wearing his hat. One time I asked him and he just ignored the subject. I left it at that. Anyway, last night we were together. I jokingly asked him again and he did remove his hat. Well, he looked different without his hat. I don't want to sound mean or anything but he's balding and has receding hairline. I'm not attracted to him ( with no hat on). He really likes me and has said that he only dating me. So hes exclusive with me. The problem is I don't feel the same way. How do I tell him and what reason should I say? I've hurt some guys before but they deserve it. This guy doesn't. How do I do it in a less hurtful way possible?
I was thinking of doing something stupid so he will hate me then he will end things between us. Any suggestions please? Thanks.
Yeah being mean to someone who has done nothing to you is always the way to go.
Send his nice self my way. I'll treat him right regardless of his receding hairline.
I'm in the same boat! Of course I hear chicks dig the salt-and-pepper!
I would!!
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Originally Posted by cwamjn
I don't know. My dude wore a hat 100% of the time, for 5 dates. That's kind of deceitful right there as well. Tell him you are breaking up with him because he's balding. It's the truth, which sounds like it will be the first time either of you have tried it since meeting.
Because he was self conscious because shallow chicks judge him for something he can't help! I feel really bad for guys that are going bald. I dated a guy who almost always wore a hat for this reason. I think most women prefer a nice head of hair but it's not a deal breaker for me. I guess she can't help who she is attracted to, but I think the comment about doing something bad to make him hate her really soured the rest of my opinion.
You call him (because you've been on more than a couple dates it sounds like) and you say "I'm sorry, I don't want to lead you on and this isn't working for me. You're a great person and I enjoy your company, but I'm not feeling any chemistry."
I think at 2-3 dates, you can get away with an email, but that's an arbitrary number that's really all about my personal comfort zones.
The guy I broke up with (and asked advice about dumping on here) ended up emailing me back to ask about reasons. I gave him some of them, mainly the ones that weren't damaging to his ego or self-image.
It's also possible that a person of whom you only know via the internet is lying their ass off, so you can't be certain of a that person's personality.
Didn't she say they'd been on 5+ dates and he always paid, but then she was wondering when she should pay and decided she shouldn't till they were in a real relationship?
I think she's just avoiding paying for dates.
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