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Women are not as selective as people think. You have to realize that a lot of the men who get shot down the most are the ones who go about it the wrong way: coming off as creepy/desperate, etc.
Yes, there are women worth pursuing in the same way there are men worth pursuing.
The first thing you need to do is STOP OBSESSING over it. Stop letting your weak dating life ruin the rest of your life. If desperation is obvious through the internet, it's even more obvious in person.
In terms of what you're doing wrong:
You don't listen. How many times did I and others tell you not to contact that FB girl again or send her a picture? Do you really think she meant it when she said you were handsome? If she thought you were handsome and wanted to see you, she wouldn't have blown you off. You had numerous people telling you to back off b/c you were way too aggressive and you didn't listen.
BAM!
Women are not difficult to get (except for maybe some of the nut jobs on here).
Most of the time, you just have to catch them at the right moment with the right approach. You develop the right approach (well the one the works more often than not) through trial and error.
If you combine that with a positive attitude and the belief that every rejection is bringing you that much closer to success, then you're unstoppable.
Oh, did I forget to mention the loads of girls that check me out with their bfs? But when they are single, no one looks at me! Wtf? Am I doing something wrong here?
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