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Old 12-28-2012, 11:26 AM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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To be clear she is my crush but i made that account to meet new people and try to get over her. She's a lesbian and I'm bi, we both have are profiles for: new friends and activity partners. We meet in class and become study buddies. She will be in my classes again when term stars next week...so i don't want to do anything that might make seeing her again in real life awkward. Would it be weird to send her message? Her profile is stuff that I already knew about her do idk what i would say other than hey....
What is OKC??
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:34 AM
 
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What is OKC??
okcupid, why not use google?
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Homeless
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She already knows that I'm bi! I just didn't want her to think that i suddenly became gay

Your OP said that you put gay on your profile that's why I assumed you haven't told her.
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:41 AM
 
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you should say you're bi in your profile, but you just want to meet women, otherwise you're going to have trouble explaining that lie
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:49 AM
 
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you should saygetu're bi in your profile, but you just want to meet women, otherwise you're going to have trouble explaining that lie
Good point....i didn't think about that
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:58 AM
 
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I took the users advice and changed it to bi but only want to meet women. Does anyone have input on if contacting her on there is a weird thing to do?
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Old 12-28-2012, 12:07 PM
 
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I took the users advice and changed it to bi but only want to meet women. Does anyone have input on if contacting her on there is a weird thing to do?

Yes, it's kind of weird. I have friends/acquaintances on okc too. It would be weird to message her, because you are already a couple steps ahead of that in real life. You can however talk about okc in person with her. I do that with friends. Is she looking for someone like you, from what her profile says?
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Old 12-28-2012, 12:31 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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So you're a half gay dude trying to pick up a lesbian woman? I don't get it.
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Old 12-28-2012, 02:51 PM
 
Location: Australia
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To be clear she is my crush but i made that account to meet new people and try to get over her. She's a lesbian and I'm bi, we both have are profiles for: new friends and activity partners. We meet in class and become study buddies. She will be in my classes again when term stars next week...so i don't want to do anything that might make seeing her again in real life awkward. Would it be weird to send her message? Her profile is stuff that I already knew about her do idk what i would say other than hey....
My advice?

Forget about it.

So she's online, so what? Lots of people are. I personally have had to block contact requests from guys I know, who don't know who I am, just so I don't have to deal with what you describe.

I don't go sweating about it. Big deal. I'm not really sure what the problem is?

Why would you even bother mentioning it? Everyone's on some online dating site or other these days.
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Old 12-28-2012, 02:58 PM
 
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nope not me, im a taken man
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