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Old 12-28-2012, 11:08 AM
 
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To be clear she is my crush but i made that account to meet new people and try to get over her. She's a lesbian and I'm bi, we both have are profiles for: new friends and activity partners. We meet in class and become study buddies. She will be in my classes again when term stars next week...so i don't want to do anything that might make seeing her again in real life awkward. Would it be weird to send her message? Her profile is stuff that I already knew about her do idk what i would say other than hey....
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:13 AM
 
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Also my profile says that I'm gay but i just put that because i didn't want any guys to message me. I'm not sure if i should tell her that or not....
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:14 AM
 
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if u like guys , y did u not want them to msg u?
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Westminster, CO
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Wow those two posts made my head hurt. If you don't want to see your "crush" on OKC, then get off OKC or block her. Problem solved.

Based on your lying on your profile, it sounds like you got on OKC just to spy on your "crush." That's not just "kind of" pathetic.
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:20 AM
 
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I have enough guy friends. And i don't think Okc us the best place to meet guys just for friends
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:21 AM
 
Location: Homeless
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Also my profile says that I'm gay but i just put that because i didn't want any guys to message me. I'm not sure if i should tell her that or not....

Take this from someone who has experience with this tell her that your Bi! In the gay community men & women have issues with someone who is bi. for them they don't understand why those claiming to be Bi can't get off the fence & choose a side. Besides you need to be honest with her & let the chips fall where they land.
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:22 AM
 
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How can i get on okc just for her when i didnt even know that she had one?
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Homeless
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How can i get on okc just for her when i didnt even know that she had one?


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Old 12-28-2012, 11:24 AM
 
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Take this from someone who has experience with this tell her tgayyour Bi! In the gay community men & women have issues with someone who is bi. for them they don't understand why those claiming to be Bi can't get off the fence & choose a side. Besides you need to be honest with her & let the chips fall where they land.
She already knows that I'm bi! I just didn't want her to think that i suddenly became gay
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:25 AM
 
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you're already study buddies, so that would be weird to message her on ok. school is the easiest way to make friends, so ask her to do something after you study, like get something to eat. maybe mention something like you saw her on ok and ask he if she met anyone.
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