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If he is sleeping around on his wife today, he'll be doing it again in a few years when you are his wife. if this story is true, this guy is a dirt bag for cheating. He isn't worth it. Get out while you can.
Oh c'mon, you don't really know the whole story. For all we know, his wife may have cheated on him and walked out. They may really be separated and have no intention of reuniting and just haven't yet gotten around to finalizing the divorce. This kind of stuff does happen.
I moved to New York over a year ago from New Hampshire after graduating college to work as a paralegal while saving up for law school.
Well, all was going well. I found a great apartment, loved the area, and things were going well at work. I just found it really, really hard to meet people. I was attending some singles events, went clubbing, and I was going out to bars with co-workers. No luck.
Late February of this year I was staying late at work as the office was swamped in paperwork and I began working closely with my boss. We hit it off. I found a charming, funny, intelligent, masculine guy who... made me feel special.
We began seeing each other shortly after that (keeping our relationship secret from the office) and things were good. The only thing is he's married (no kids). He keeps telling me that they're separated and going to be divorcing but the fact is... he's married. I feel guilty for sleeping with a married man but I love him.
He wants me to move in with him but I don't know what to do. Do I end the relationship or not?
I have seen so many lifetime movies that are scripted like this. If things go wrong in the relationship, he could dump you then fire you. How many times have married men said that they are in the process of getting a divorce, only to go back to their wife and leave the mistress behind or string them along? Just end it and find a man who isn't your boss, or romantically attached to someone else/married.
I moved to New York over a year ago from New Hampshire after graduating college to work as a paralegal while saving up for law school.
Well, all was going well. I found a great apartment, loved the area, and things were going well at work. I just found it really, really hard to meet people. I was attending some singles events, went clubbing, and I was going out to bars with co-workers. No luck.
Late February of this year I was staying late at work as the office was swamped in paperwork and I began working closely with my boss. We hit it off. I found a charming, funny, intelligent, masculine guy who... made me feel special.
We began seeing each other shortly after that (keeping our relationship secret from the office) and things were good. The only thing is he's married (no kids). He keeps telling me that they're separated and going to be divorcing but the fact is... he's married. I feel guilty for sleeping with a married man but I love him.
He wants me to move in with him but I don't know what to do. Do I end the relationship or not?
I had a relationship with one of my bosses once. It was hot.
They are indeed separated and have been so months before we began our relationship. He frequently tells me that they're going to be moving forward with the divorce proceedings soon.
If I break up with him, I feel I'd have to leave the company and paralegal jobs are so hard to come by, there's no way I'd be able to pay my rent and other bills.
going to be divorced is a common scenario. sleeping with someone who is going to be divorced sounds so much better than sleeping with a married man. sleeping with the boss is the last stop b4 the door.
Last edited by Huckleberry3911948; 12-29-2012 at 12:42 PM..
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