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Old 12-30-2012, 08:24 PM
 
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I didn't disagree, i simply stated a fact.
Nowhere did I state you disagreed.

I did state you went off on a discussion because I said attraction and procreation are different.

 
Old 12-30-2012, 08:28 PM
 
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Nowhere did I state you disagreed.

I did state you went off on a discussion because I said attraction and procreation are different.
Discussion? Yes? A minor discussion about procreation and attraction are biology. Then the "lacking reading comprehension" comment causing me to go off since you went off on my for my discussion
 
Old 12-30-2012, 08:39 PM
 
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Discussion? Yes? A minor discussion about procreation and attraction are biology. Then the "lacking reading comprehension" comment causing me to go off since you went off on my for my discussion
Pages long isn't minor in my opinion.

Again where did I go off?

Unsure why the lacking reading comprehension comment as it was reasonable to me as you were claiming I said something I didn't.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 08:42 PM
 
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Pages long isn't minor in my opinion.

Again where did I go off?

Unsure why the lacking reading comprehension comment as it was reasonable to me as you were claiming I said something I didn't.
What did I claim that you didn't say? And a discussion involves more than one person: that person being you and compared to a lot of other discussions its relatively short. And the lack of reading comprehension comment is an insult and I took it as such.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 08:56 PM
 
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What did I claim that you didn't say? And a discussion involves more than one person: that person being you and compared to a lot of other discussions its relatively short. And the lack of reading comprehension comment is an insult and I took it as such.
What you claimed I didn't say can be answered in the link.

I'm unsure why you're telling me a discussion involves more than one person as nowhere did I state you were conversing with yourself.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 09:03 PM
 
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That pendulum is never gonna swing far enough for a decent-looking chick to want a clingy, obsessive man.
I guess i'm screwed. Oh well, i figured it was probably too good to be true.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 09:05 PM
 
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What you claimed I didn't say can be answered in the link.

I'm unsure why you're telling me a discussion involves more than one person as nowhere did I state you were conversing with yourself.
You DID say I lack reading comprehension and you just proved it. And there is nothing I said that was false. You DID say they were different. Did I say you were wrong? No.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 09:20 PM
 
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You DID say I lack reading comprehension and you just proved it. And there is nothing I said that was false. You DID say they were different. Did I say you were wrong? No.
I didn't deny that I said you perhaps lack reading comprehension so I'm unsure why you're telling me you proved I did.

I said procreation and attraction were different. I didn't say attraction wasn't apart of biology or that biology was different from attraction as your comment implied.

So again you went off and started a pages long discussion for what purpose?
 
Old 12-30-2012, 09:20 PM
 
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I don't think anything magical happens to guys around the age of 30-35 that makes them more appealing to women, but I do think there are a lot of factors that may make it seem that way. I honestly didn't have the greatest luck with women in my 20's, and a lot of that has to do with my own immaturity during those years. I was still trying to figure who I was and what I wanted to do with my life. I graduated with high honors in a field I completely lost interest and motivation in. I worked crap jobs and managed to scrape by(pretty disheartening for an ambitious Capricorn) and I think this instability took a pretty big toll on my dating life and relationships.

Fast forward a few years and I am established in a career. I've lived a few different places and I have actually grown into myself both physically and mentally. I've had many types of experiences with many types of women. I'm now less concerned with what women think about me and ironically they seem much more interested in me despite that. Maybe I exude a lot more confidence(or less angst). I certainly feel more confident and settled than I did when I was younger. I've adopted a style that suits me and I take better care of myself than I used to.

I used to be way too "emo," brooding and being overdramatic and turning the slightest romantic disappointment to high tragedy. Nowadays it's not the end of the world if a particular woman is not interested. I look back and see a few "what coulda been"s but I also see a few bullets dodged.

Most of all, I feel like more than at any other time in my life, I can date on my own terms. I'm not trying to "win someones heart" or some other Hallmark card crap. I'm trying to find someone who could possibly make a decent equal partner to go through life. I respect women but now realize that that respect doesn't mean putting them on pedestals.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 09:34 PM
 
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I guess i'm screwed. Oh well, i figured it was probably too good to be true.
Probably not screwed as there are escorts, prostitutes, and mail order brides.
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