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Old 12-30-2012, 05:32 PM
 
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you do realize that you can date people from other religions and they can convert right?

Why would they not be able to marry? because they are divorced? You can get married again in the catholic church but it is a lengthy process and some paperwork needs to be filled out. I can understand not liking fat guys but what about chubby ones? This reasoning of yours seems to be totally illogical.
I'm not interested in dating men who might not be able to marry in church so no I avoid them. I would date someone not Catholic but not someone not Christian. I'll date chubby guys.

 
Old 12-30-2012, 05:34 PM
 
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I have a personal problem with doing that. I get what you are saying but part of me thinks if I am not interested from the get go, I will get bored of them. I know that may not be the truth but some of the guys who contact me I don't see myself liking. If I met them offline I might feel differently.
Well, you will never know unless you try. I wasn't interested from the get go, but that is because of how I had been thinking before hand. He has to be this, he has to be that. I am telling you that he was nothing that I wanted.

I quickly learned he was everything I needed. I had only been dating those pretty boy PhD men and he was just not that. He wasn't that white collar man. He wasn't the dr who was a scientist.

Well who cares! I wanted someone who had been married and had kids and he was the opposite of that as well. He has never been married and has no kids.....

When I tell you I went outside of the box, I am telling you, I did the exact opposite of what I have done in the past.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 05:35 PM
 
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Good for you Pikantari! I really enjoyed reading your post and I am glad it worked out for you!
Thank you!
 
Old 12-30-2012, 05:35 PM
 
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I may consider meeting some of these men but I'm not that into them. Maybe it is because I am still obsessed with Taco Man.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 05:35 PM
 
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I'm not interested in dating men who might not be able to marry in church so no I avoid them. I would date someone not Catholic but not someone not Christian. I'll date chubby guys.
You are picky but not about their weight? Wut.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 05:36 PM
 
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I'm not interested in dating men who might not be able to marry in church so no I avoid them. I would date someone not Catholic but not someone not Christian. I'll date chubby guys.

Well at least that's a little better, im proud of you. I've dated chubby girls before(ps. they don't like being called chubbs not even jokingly lol) I am catholic too btw.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 05:37 PM
 
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Well, you will never know unless you try. I wasn't interested from the get go, but that is because of how I had been thinking before hand. He has to be this, he has to be that. I am telling you that he was nothing that I wanted.

I quickly learned he was everything I needed. I had only been dating those pretty boy PhD men and he was just not that.


Darn well that takes me out then lol

so how was he different from what you are normally like? like when you say had to have this or that..what was it?
 
Old 12-30-2012, 05:40 PM
 
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When I say obese I mean really obese, as in unable to do a lot of physical activity. I am active and would have little in common with a guy who can't.
 
Old 12-30-2012, 05:42 PM
 
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When I say obese I mean really obese, as in unable to do a lot of physical activity. I am active and would have little in common with a guy who can't.
active...as in how active?
 
Old 12-30-2012, 05:44 PM
 
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Active as in they don't sit around all the time and watch tv and eat. That wouldn't work with me as I rarely do that.
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