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Old 01-01-2013, 09:05 AM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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The key is just talking to people. Like someone else said "talk to everyone". This will build your social skills and confidence. And regardless of looks, money, or even offensive smells, women will sleep with any confident guy that appears to have high social value. Just give it time bro and don't stress too much it will happen.
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Old 01-01-2013, 10:43 AM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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And regardless of looks, money, or even offensive smells, women will sleep with any confident guy that appears to have high social value
Really? So all (or even most) women will sleep with any "confident guy" that projects an aura of "high social value?" And they can be fat, unemployed and smell like hell, but women will be beatin' a path to their doors, according to your thesis?

LOL.

I see that on this Forum, many think that if a guy is confident, that is the end all and be all. It isn't. It's a desirable trait for both genders to have, but there are tons of confident men who have little lucky with women.

A man who is fit, caring, has a great sense of humor and who likes women will ALWAYS be the best catch for most discerning women. Confidence is good, but it often borders on conceit/cockiness, which is the kiss of death.
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Old 01-01-2013, 10:47 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Really? So all (or even most) women will sleep with any "confident guy" that projects an aura of "high social value?" And they can be fat, unemployed and smell like hell, but women will be beatin' a path to their doors, according to your thesis?

LOL.

I see that on this Forum, many think that if a guy is confident, that is the end all and be all. It isn't. It's a desirable trait for both genders to have, but there are tons of confident men who have little lucky with women.

A man who is fit, caring, has a great sense of humor and who likes women will ALWAYS be the best catch for most discerning women. Confidence is good, but it often borders on conceit/cockiness, which is the kiss of death.
Thank you for some (un)common sense.
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Old 01-02-2013, 04:26 PM
 
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Stop! You are only 20 years old! Don't make such a fuss about it! I've worked with young girls and boys who were losing it at 11, 12, 13, 14 etc, etc, etc, etc. 15 - 17 is the average age in schools but it doesn't apply to everyone. The majority of these kids are troubled and just about half of them have become parents way too soon. The rest have STDs to deal with. Having kids is a blessing but a big time responsiblity, especially at such young ages. Be thankful you are not one of those kids.

Take a good look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself what your priorities in life are right now. If getting laid is it, then you need to do some soul searching for your own good. Be good to yourself, feel good about yourself first on the inside and your outside profile will shine. Nothing changes overnight so don't stress about it. You can make immediate changes to your physical life though. Focus on having a clean bill of health, pay attention to your diet, include proper exercise, good grooming and hygene. Your body will thank you and your personally will carry you. As for your pysche? Find your inner-self first and what makes you tick other than the routine thoughts of sex.
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Old 01-02-2013, 04:29 PM
 
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I'm 27 and in the same boat. You still have 7 years to go before being like me, at least.
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Old 01-02-2013, 04:41 PM
 
Location: North of 60
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How hard is it to go to the bar and pick up some drunk chick?

<Incoming flames about waiting for the first time to be meaningful>

I'm sure if that were his concern, he wouldn't be posting here.
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Old 01-02-2013, 05:11 PM
 
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Go find an escort. It's really worth the money. But you've got plenty of time.
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Old 01-02-2013, 05:50 PM
 
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Go find an escort. It's really worth the money. But you've got plenty of time.
They are only worth the money unless you pay for exactly what you want.

The guy is 20. He should be concentrating on earning a decent paycheck, putting some of it aside for himself, and working on his profile in order to be able to pay for a date. More importantly, he's got to learn to approach many women without any preconceived feelings of success with them. Meeting and talking to women when you feel right about yourself is key. If you don't feel good about yourself, how are you going to make others around you feel good, especially women?
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Old 01-02-2013, 06:06 PM
 
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They are only worth the money unless you pay for exactly what you want.

The guy is 20. He should be concentrating on earning a decent paycheck, putting some of it aside for himself, and working on his profile in order to be able to pay for a date.
You can find very acceptable prostitutes for reasonable prices.
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Old 01-02-2013, 06:08 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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You can find very acceptable prostitutes for reasonable prices.
Sometimes I wonder if you actually work for an escort service and your just trying to promote business.
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