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We see a number of threads here about single women having affairs with married men who tell these women that they're going to leave their wives and most of the time it doesn't happen. Most of the women end up feeling hurt and disappointed.
I have a friend who is a male and he is in a similar situation. He told me that he is having a relationship (more emotional than physical) with a married woman. They haven't had sex but they've been affectionate (hugging and holding hands and a kiss here and there) with each other. He has told me that she tells him that she's going to divorce her husband sometime this year. BTW, she told my friend this before they even started their thing. My buddy more than likes this woman and he says that she feels the same way about him.
However, he is beginning to feel the way some women feel when they're messing around with married men. He doesn't quite believe that she's going to divorce her husband. And as a result he feels like he'll end up being hurt and he doesn't want that. He says that he feels like a little b*tch. He has opportunities to date other women but this thing with this married woman has been building for a while according to him.
Have you any of you men or married women been in a situation like this and how did you handle it?
We see a number of threads here about single women having affairs with married men who tell these women that they're going to leave their wives and most of the time it doesn't happen. Most of the women end up feeling hurt and disappointed.
I have a friend who is a male and he is in a similar situation. He told me that he is having a relationship (more emotional than physical) with a married woman. They haven't had sex but they've been affectionate (hugging and holding hands and a kiss here and there) with each other. He has told me that she tells him that she's going to divorce her husband sometime this year. BTW, she told my friend this before they even started their thing. My buddy more than likes this woman and he says that she feels the same way about him.
However, he is beginning to feel the way some women feel when they're messing around with married men. He doesn't quite believe that she's going to divorce her husband. And as a result he feels like he'll end up being hurt and he doesn't want that. He says that he feels like a little b*tch. He has opportunities to date other women but this thing with this married woman has been building for a while according to him.
Have you any of you men or married women been in a situation like this and how did you handle it?
A) She is probably looking for a crutch to get her over the emotional hump of the divorce. When it is over, I give it three to six months before she dumps your friend.
B) She likes the attention and has no intention of divorcing her husband.
C) She is an emotional insecure or immature nutcase or just a nutcase.
I met a woman that told me she was separated and dated her for six months.
At one point she shared the details with me that they still shared the same house
It didn't bother me that much at the time as this was back in the mid 90's I had fun with her but wasn't looking for anything else.
Then she started writing me five page love letters
I live in VT the easiest state in the country to get a gun,all you need is a license for ID.
My friends convinced me to get away from her because according to them" they kill people up here for that."
I told her the letters freaked me out and that I was moving on.For the next few years I would see her downtown with different men that replaced me...
Never been in this situation. I won't even consider a guy who isn't at least formally separated from his wife, with that separation being a well-established step.
I once had a woman shriek at me "He's my husband" with regard to a guy I had been living with in order to get me to give her information about him. I would have felt terrible if not for the fact that they had been formally separated for nearly 2 years (with her being the one to leave - and rather abruptly at that). There'd even been another girlfriend he'd lived with before moving in with me. But I guess I'll take my hussy creds where I can get them.
She's not going to leave her husband for this guy. Why would she? He needs to back off - because yeah, he's just going to feel used and manipulated otherwise. Let her put on her big-girl pants and do what she needs to do with regard to ending her marriage before she puts her hand in a new cookie jar.
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