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Old 01-15-2013, 01:05 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Basically I've seen two types, men with money and desperate guys. One of my exboyfriends was so desperate to get married that he met a woman online, and moved to another state to marry her (without having met her). He ended up spending all his money on buying her gifts and she wanted more. Eventually he ran out of money and she lost interest (and broke the engagement). He moved back home and was bitter that all women are like this and that he plans to never marry because of it. He's still single.
Does he post on C-D? This sounds familiar. lol
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Old 01-15-2013, 01:07 PM
 
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Does he post on C-D? This sounds familiar. lol
Not that I know of, but he should because he would fit right in. He is now so bitter and unless he changes he will be alone.
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Old 01-15-2013, 01:38 PM
 
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Not that I know of, but he should because he would fit right in. He is now so bitter and unless he changes he will be alone.
Now we have an idea of how some of the bitter guys get that way.
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Old 01-15-2013, 03:23 PM
 
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Now we have an idea of how some of the bitter guys get that way.
They put the women on a pedestal, give tons of excessive attention/money for them, gets rejected/no longer has contact with her, then gets misogynistic and hateful. Rinse and repeat.
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Old 01-15-2013, 06:36 PM
 
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They put the women on a pedestal, give tons of excessive attention/money for them, gets rejected/no longer has contact with her, then gets misogynistic and hateful. Rinse and repeat.
Then he starts mistreating the innocent women who have nothing to do with what happened to him.
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Old 01-15-2013, 06:47 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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?? How do you demand expensive handbags (or gifts of any kind) from a guy you're dating? These days, you have to be pretty lucky to find a guy who could even afford that. Who are these people?
He was a private charter pilot I worked with.... quite young, very good looking and made a nice salary. After they got married she made him sell his plane (it was a little 172, super fun, but not 'fancy' enough for her) and buy a beach house they could barely afford. Then, he complained about how 'all she thought about was money and status'. Well DUH, we told you that when you first started dating!!!
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Old 01-15-2013, 06:53 PM
 
Location: Cardboard box
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That's the ONLY reason to get married!

Getting a girl preggo is not a reason to get married. It is a reason to run for the hills and never come back.
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Old 01-15-2013, 06:56 PM
 
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Getting a girl preggo is not a reason to get married. It is a reason to run for the hills and never come back.
Yep. Ditch out on your kid and any responsibility.

And we wonder why there are so many single moms out there?
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Old 01-15-2013, 07:02 PM
 
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Yep. Ditch out on your kid and any responsibility.

And we wonder why there are so many single moms out there?
Yeah I don't get that logic. If the guy wants nothing to do with the her ok fine (you don't have to live with her) but if he's the biological father, then he's just as responsible as the girl. Hate cowards that run away from their own child.
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Old 01-15-2013, 07:03 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Getting a girl preggo is not a reason to get married. It is a reason to run for the hills and never come back.
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