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Have you read any self help books? Do you think you would be able to be friends with her without getting more emotionally vested or even possibly hurt?
It might be easier said than done but you shouldn't ignore her overtures, matter of fact you need to pay close attention to her behavior towards you. Also, look at how she interacts with other people especially men. Ignorance isn't bliss. If she isn't interested and you ignore her cues, you are now living in this fantasy of does she or doesn't she? This leads to a total waste of time in the long run. If she does like you, you've still wasted time because you have ignored the truth.
The sooner you see things for what it is, the sooner you will be able to move forward in a relationship or move on.
i definitely would get more emotionally vested if i was friends with her. see, had i become friends with her before i fell for her in mid Dec it would have been easier, but now it's kind of like it's too late. i constantly have butterflies in my stomach when she is around
i have noticed how men respond to her (by complimenting her and flirting) but other than seeing the maintenance man cooing her during a meeting and her obviously not liking it(she looked very uncomfortable), i don't really get a chance to see how she acts with men. there aren't many single men there closer to her age other than myself
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