(warning: long!!)
So about 2 weeks after I broke up with my pathetic excuse for an ex , I went to the barn I used to ride at and met a guy...
He's very...different. From any other guy I've ever dated. Maybe in a good way.
And still I feel like something's off...
Maybe it's just because I got used to being treated badly by every guy I've been with but this guy seems really weird to me...
He drove me home that same day we've met, and didn't even try to give me a good night kiss (which was weird...I'm used to guys expecting even much more than a kiss even on the first date).
It's been 3 days and he called me and texted me each and every one of them.
He calls me "princess" and is asking me to do the same (like, literally...ASKING.)
He didn't really try to have sex with me but when the subject came up and I said I wanna wait, he DID ask "how do I know you won't say later and later and later?"
The thing that seemed the weirdest was that on our 2nd date he said he loved me (WTF?!
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I don't even know if he even believes it or just wants ME to believe it but either way it's weird.
On our 1st date we went to this cinema/shopping center, we were planning to sit in a bar but it was closed...instead we just walked around and went into a photo booth, when it was time to pay for the photos he "somehow" didn't find his wallet. It was only a couple of bucks so I didn't mind but I couldn't help but imagine what would of happened if the bar wasn't closed...I don't mind splitting the bill but making me pay for both of us is just...wrong.
Maybe he really did just forget his wallet, but what if he didnt?
You see, another thing that bothers me is that I'm older and more stable than him.
I'm only 1 year older but I have a stable job and my own apartment...he dropped out of school, is living with his parents, jumps from one job to another and doesn't seem very responsible...he knows he can relay on his parents. (which I can't) In other words, I'm the "adult" in this relationship.
He's talking about stuff like "we'll have kids" "moving in" etc.
Can't help but wonder if he's a reverse gold digger :P
It's really...weird.
On one hand I always wanted someone that will give me nicknames, take me out on dates (actually GOING places...not sitting home together all day), call me and actually be INTERESTED in what I have to say (and he is...I feel like I can actually have a conversation with him.)
Then again, I'm not used to this kind of thing...I guess I'm not used to guys treating me well.
And the age thing bothers me...the youngest guy I've EVER dated was 6 years older than me.
They all had their own car, their house , a job etc.
So I kind of feel like I'm dating a kid.
And the whole "I love you" after 2 days is a little fishy...
What do you all think?