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01-15-2013, 07:22 PM
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For those of you who had read my previous post, I am just wondering what happen if I broke up with my girlfriend ( I am Chinese and she is Jewish) after we had a kid? Do women in north America still date single dad with kid(s)? I don't have any financial burden and my parents will help me to raise the kids. I am sure that most asian women wouldn't date me ( expect for money) since my kid will be bi-racial . How about white women? Do I still have chance with single white women without kids? 
I am in my early 20s, I want to have kids with my girlfriend. But lets say if the marriage doesn't work out, I want to know what are the consequences. |
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01-15-2013, 07:23 PM
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Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Your questions are so dumb.
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01-15-2013, 07:30 PM
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Originally Posted by ja1myn
Your questions are so dumb.
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Yeah I have to agree.
Seriously OP...you don't even HAVE kids and you are wondering if someone will date you IF you have kids and IF you break up?
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01-15-2013, 07:34 PM
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Location: U.S.
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Originally Posted by 北洋舰队
For those of you who had read my previous post, I am just wondering what happen if I broke up with my girlfriend ( I am Chinese and she is Jewish) after we had a kid? Do women in north America still date single dad with kid(s)? I don't have any financial burden and my parents will help me to raise the kids. I am sure that most asian women wouldn't date me ( expect for money) since my kid will be bi-racial . How about white women? Do I still have chance with single white women without kids?
I am in my early 20s, I want to have kids with my girlfriend. But lets say if the marriage doesn't work out, I want to know what are the consequences. |
If you're looking for some kind of guarantee, you aren't going to find it.
We don't know your life. You might find another girlfriend, you might not. |
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01-15-2013, 07:36 PM
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Location: State of Transition
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Would you even want your own biracial kids? You said biracial Asians are "extremely unattractive".
How would your dad feel about your having a White baby-mama AND eventually, a White wife?
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01-15-2013, 07:39 PM
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Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
You said biracial Asians are "extremely unattractive".
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Hold the phone...he said this? Wow. Such fail.
Us half Asian men are the shat. |
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01-15-2013, 07:42 PM
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Originally Posted by 北洋舰队
For those of you who had read my previous post, I am just wondering what happen if I broke up with my girlfriend ( I am Chinese and she is Jewish) after we had a kid? Do women in north America still date single dad with kid(s)? I don't have any financial burden and my parents will help me to raise the kids. I am sure that most asian women wouldn't date me ( expect for money) since my kid will be bi-racial . How about white women? Do I still have chance with single white women without kids?
I am in my early 20s, I want to have kids with my girlfriend. But lets say if the marriage doesn't work out, I want to know what are the consequences. |
It's the same over here man, the women here in the states won't date you unless you have money; that really applies for all women regardless of where they are from. But yes, American women WILL date you if you're a single dad so as long as you have a good income (at least 60k), so no worries.
Anyhow, I have no idea why you're looking to date women specifically in North America. I was in Shanghai about a month ago and the Chinese women were HOT! Most of the Chinese women I saw were in shape and they were dressed very well. If not China, and you like White/Asian women in North America, I would look to date Hawaiian girls. In Hawaii, there are lots of mixed Asians (Japanese/European mix) and they are much different (more friendly, laid back) then the people here in mainland (United States).
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01-15-2013, 07:44 PM
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Yes, there are women who will date you. Personally, I don't date guys with kids, but I also don't date guys in their early 20s. My guess is it will be easier for you to date than a single mom.
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01-15-2013, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by calicali01
It's the same over here man, the women here in the states won't date you unless you have money; that really applies for all women regardless of where they are from.
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I really despise this generalization.
Not all women are gold diggers. Personally I could care less about how much money a guy has. But if he's jobless and broke as a joke and I have to pay for everything that's a different story. I'll take care of me, you take care of you. |
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01-15-2013, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
Would you even want your own biracial kids? You said biracial Asians are "extremely unattractive".
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lol..... Really? He said that? I have a friend who is a biracial Asian model and he's plastered all over SE Asia. He did commercials for Gillette, airline companies, and so forth.....
Biracial Asians (mixed with European) are "in" because they have Asian features with extremely white skin that is so popular these days with many Asians.
"In Asia, being white or light skinned has become very popular. For the longest time, women, in general, have attempted to whiten their facial skin. In fact, most cultures considered women with the whitest skin the most beautiful, bringing forth the need for cosmetics."
Asians Obsessed with Pale/whiter skin! - AsianFanatics Forum |
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