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Yeah they are because the media foolishly made men believe the way for a woman to enjoy sex is if he is unselfish and gentle lover. Thats not the way to good sex. I've never met a woman who doesn't like rough sex or having her butt slapped during sex. If more guys were rough, butt slapping, hair pulling, etc., then less women would complain about sex.
I was basically a pro the first time I ever had sex. Just gotta be in good shape (so you have good control/stamina), be confident and enjoy foreplay/giving oral
Easy as hell
No. Not even close.
There is much more to it than the basic mechanics, and it's not "easy". Every body is different and responds differently to stimuli. What pleases one person may not please the next.
Also, having sex with a number of different women doesn't necessarily make you good at anything. IMO, the best sex comes from being in tune with your partner, and the kind of intimate physical, emotional, and trusting connection that you can rarely, if ever, get from a ONS.
Yeah they are because the media foolishly made men believe the way for a woman to enjoy sex is if he is unselfish and gentle lover. Thats not the way to good sex. I've never met a woman who doesn't like rough sex or having her butt slapped during sex. If more guys were rough, butt slapping, hair pulling, etc., then less women would complain about sex.
I know a few... I also know a woman who threw a fit because her boyfriend 'spanked' her during sex and it made her feel demeaned. She was NOT happy about it... believe me.
From my rather limited experience, and hearing from my friends, many men are TOO rough TOO quickly and it scares some women off. I blame it on watching porn, but I agree that many women do like sex a bit rough but you have to work your way into it, not just pull her hair right out of the gate.
Yeah they are because the media foolishly made men believe the way for a woman to enjoy sex is if he is unselfish and gentle lover. Thats not the way to good sex. I've never met a woman who doesn't like rough sex or having her butt slapped during sex. If more guys were rough, butt slapping, hair pulling, etc., then less women would complain about sex.
Does that go for oral too, or is oral only something media-brainwashed fools do?
I greatly enjoy sucking, licking, and tickling breast. Hearing my partner giggle turns me on as much as hearing her moan. As for rough sex, it's a delicate art form you first need to unlock by being sure the labyrinth is actually filled with clues instead of hear say. I've always felt the best way is once she'd admitted her naughty fantasy to, or when she's controlling the oceans motions....
I am probably the only woman in the world that hates foreplay...I just want to have sex....lol.
My wife doesn't like foreplay either.
I would LOVE to spend hours pleasing her in a variety of ways, but she just wants to get right at it, and doesn't like being touched much. She rarely lets me touch her intimately unless she's very turned on. Ironically, I'm most excited when I participate in foreplay, I love the sights, sounds, etc, of arousal. I actually have a VERY hard time getting into it at all if I can't touch her or otherwise engage in foreplay.
She won't talk about it, saying such talk ruins the moment. It could be a matter of her previous sexual experiences or that she likes to be in charge. Letting someone touch you intimately requires you give up control for a bit. She is very passionate and has no trouble achieving orgasm, but usually only when she touches herself as we make love. She's not allowed me to please her orally or digitally. She says she's sensitive, and she may be; but as she didn't have her first orgasm until after childbirth in her mid 20s, I suspect her ex's may have been clumsy and shaped her behavior substantially.
It took me MONTHS to get her to allow me to give her a no-strings-attached massage. I had to literally work my way up from her feet and hands, over the course of months, before she allowed me to massage shoulder, head, hips, and back. This is in line with both sensitivity and control issues … she used to cringe when I touched her, now she welcomes massage regularly.
I would LOVE to spend hours pleasing her in a variety of ways, but she just wants to get right at it, and doesn't like being touched much. She rarely lets me touch her intimately unless she's very turned on. Ironically, I'm most excited when I participate in foreplay, I love the sights, sounds, etc, of arousal. I actually have a VERY hard time getting into it at all if I can't touch her or otherwise engage in foreplay.
She won't talk about it, saying such talk ruins the moment. It could be a matter of her previous sexual experiences or that she likes to be in charge. Letting someone touch you intimately requires you give up control for a bit. She is very passionate and has no trouble achieving orgasm, but usually only when she touches herself as we make love. She's not allowed me to please her orally or digitally. She says she's sensitive, and she may be; but as she didn't have her first orgasm until after childbirth in her mid 20s, I suspect her ex's may have been clumsy and shaped her behavior substantially.
It took me MONTHS to get her to allow me to give her a no-strings-attached massage. I had to literally work my way up from her feet and hands, over the course of months, before she allowed me to massage shoulder, head, hips, and back. This is in line with both sensitivity and control issues … she used to cringe when I touched her, now she welcomes massage regularly.
Bummer, couldnt handle that. Sounds like you have the patience of Job. To me it sounds like potential trama in the past, but who knows. could be natural?
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