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Old 01-19-2013, 09:44 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Because nice girls get dumped.
Not nearly as often as mean ones do, at least if they're dating me.
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Old 01-19-2013, 09:48 AM
 
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This topic has already been addressed. The OPs flakiness is well documented in many of her previous posts.

capitol was right, how ironic the flake is rejecting so-called flakes.
LOL. I concur. And it seems she meets a LOT of guys everywhere she goes. Wow. And yet she's STILL single.

The problem is YOU, OP not 'them'. I agree I think you think highly of yourself. What is so wrong with giving a 2nd chance? It's not like you are getting married it's just a date for goodness sakes. How can you know you like the person if you won't even give them a chance?
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Old 01-19-2013, 10:09 AM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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So do flakey woman who refuse to return phone calls

You have such high expectations from men that you don't reciprocate. That's called having double standards.

And for the record I am an ER RN who works in a very busy Level 1 Trauma Hospital and NONE of us are that busy we can't return a text message. I am calling you out.
Well the problem about that guy( the one who dumped me) got fixed. He asked me to go on a date, he drove to me and we went out last night. OMG, hes a very hot dude! I noticed girls were checking him out. No, I didn't have sex with him. We never had sex. He asked me out again. He sent me a text saying he had a great time and would like to see me again soon.

People here say I was flakey. Then maybe me being flakey was somehow a good thing. This guy could get dates with no problem but he couldn't make me commit to a date quick. He had to wait. He said I was difficult but adorable.
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Old 01-19-2013, 10:29 AM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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LOL. I concur. And it seems she meets a LOT of guys everywhere she goes. Wow. And yet she's STILL single.

The problem is YOU, OP not 'them'. I agree I think you think highly of yourself. What is so wrong with giving a 2nd chance? It's not like you are getting married it's just a date for goodness sakes. How can you know you like the person if you won't even give them a chance?
I'm single because I don't rush into a relationship fast. I want the freedom to meet guys and date them. I won't commit to someone unless I'm sure hes the one I want to have a relationship with. He has to have all the qualities I am looking for. Pastbexperiences taught me alt of lessons. I've never cheated and would never cheat. I know myself, if I'm not completely satisfied with what I have, I will keep looking. It's hard to commit to someone when you have other options and you know there's a big chance you will meet someone better. That's why I don't have sex too soon unless I know he's someone I want to be in a relationship with and he wants the same thing. I'm able to control my actions, emotions and the situations well that way.
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Old 01-19-2013, 10:38 AM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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Not nearly as often as mean ones do, at least if they're dating me.
Not if your fun to hang out with. Guys like mean girls who are fun and know how to have a good time.
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Old 01-19-2013, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Not if your fun to hang out with. Guys like mean girls who are fun and know how to have a good time.
I don't like mean people, and don't think they're fun to hang out with at all. If you know guys who do, though, and that's working for you, more power to you.
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Old 01-19-2013, 11:17 PM
 
Location: California
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Nicely put!
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