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Old 01-19-2013, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Dar es salaam, Tanzania
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I met this guy(russian) an a dating site.After a week, the guy came to my country-Africa to meet me, we had great time together,visited my family together, he left and promised to visit me after a month (it is not yet a month since he left),we are communicating everyday and he is planning to come as he promised.
The problem is that, he promised to send me money for xmas to buy a camera (I didin't ask for the money, he just volunteered), but he didn't though he told me that he had some problems financially which made him unable to send the money.
Second, my sister is asking me everyday if the man has sent the money, when I say he hasn't, she tells me that the man is not good enough for me,
now am confused, if that man doesn't give me money, does it mean he is not interested in me?
I know you guys can help me based on your experience and your opinions about such issues.
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Old 01-19-2013, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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The problem is that, he promised to send me money for xmas to buy a camera (I didin't ask for the money, he just volunteered), but he didn't though he told me that he had some problems financially which made him unable to send the money.
Second, my sister is asking me everyday if the man has sent the money, when I say he hasn't, she tells me that the man is not good enough for me,
now am confused, if that man doesn't give me money, does it mean he is not interested in me?
I know you guys can help me based on your experience and your opinions about such issues.


Your sister is right. This man is no good for you.
Please set this poor man free, so he can use his money wisely.

My baby brother just received a response on dating site, it says like this, "I am a young attractive south African girl who is white, I found your profile to be interesting. I want to establish a good relationsip with you, but I am currently stuck in my county, can you send money to buy me a ticket, so I can go to your country to visit you?"

Just out of curiosity, is she you?
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Old 01-19-2013, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Uh he has money problems. And many men on here would say buy your own camera. And if he can afford to visit you he has some. I think it was a one time thing.
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Old 01-19-2013, 12:08 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Your sister is right. This man is no good for you.
Please set this poor man free, so he can use his money wisely.

My baby brother just received a response on dating site, it says like this, "I am a young attractive south African girl who is white, I found your profile to be interesting. I want to establish a good relationsip with you, but I am currently stuck in my county, can you send money to buy me a ticket, so I can go to your country to visit you?"

Just out of curiosity, is she you?
It does sound like a scam.
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Old 01-19-2013, 12:10 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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It does sound like a scam.
very much so.
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Old 01-19-2013, 12:29 PM
 
Location: North of 60
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Is this like those emails I get that pollute my inbox at work?
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Old 01-19-2013, 04:29 PM
 
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This sounds legit. OP, message me and I will give you my bank routing numbers so you can access my account and buy whatever camera you need.
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Old 01-19-2013, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Pa
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This sounds legit. OP, message me and I will give you my bank routing numbers so you can access my account and buy whatever camera you need.
Lol bad.
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Old 01-19-2013, 07:34 PM
 
Location: Dar es salaam, Tanzania
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Thanx guys, though seems like you think I am a scam, what I real need from you guys is to advise me wether my sister is right or I should continue my relationship with the guy.
To me the man does not seem like he wanted a one night thing because he would have stopped communicating or sending me his photos, besides, he never used me for sex as we didn't have sex.IS MY SISTER RIGHT? THAT IF HE HASN'T SENT ME MONEY, THEN HE IS NOT GOOD FOR ME? MUST EVERY WHITEMAN SEND MONEY TO YOU TO SHOW HE IS INTERESTED?
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Old 01-19-2013, 07:37 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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I met this guy(russian) an a dating site.After a week, the guy came to my country-Africa to meet me, we had great time together,visited my family together, he left and promised to visit me after a month (it is not yet a month since he left),we are communicating everyday and he is planning to come as he promised.
The problem is that, he promised to send me money for xmas to buy a camera (I didin't ask for the money, he just volunteered), but he didn't though he told me that he had some problems financially which made him unable to send the money.
Second, my sister is asking me everyday if the man has sent the money, when I say he hasn't, she tells me that the man is not good enough for me,
now am confused, if that man doesn't give me money, does it mean he is not interested in me?
I know you guys can help me based on your experience and your opinions about such issues.
Africa is not a COUNTRY, its a CONTINENT

I smell a troll.
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