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Um.. Yeah.. my weirdness borderlines autism and for the most part, no one is interested in hopping on my love train. Low intelligence plays a big role in it as well. At least for me. I'm not clever, or witty.. so no room for any charm to compensate for strange behavior or the fact that I am not exactly the most attractive guy by any means. A makeover wouldn't stop the ugly from showing through. I like many others, still desire companionship. Sexual or otherwise, with people I have no chance of actually getting, or finding common ground with. So I fap to internet porn. Try and work on my crippling anxiety and low self esteem. What worse is being just smart enough to realize just how much of a disadvantage being in this body really is.
I prefer unique, clever, spontaneous, emotional at times, entertaining, driven and self motivated, personal as I can make things my own and present things in a manner few others dare to take it or go.......etc..
Being born into it in a unusual way to begin with. I am a twin and have a twin sister. When I was very young, I used to feel as though I was all the ***t that was left over. By the time I was about 14-15.....Sis was falling very far behind in the "God Given Talents" department.
She has her super model like good looks and stunning appearance.....along with many other positive traits that we both share.
THE MAN UPSTAIRS had something else in mind for me though.....
Um.. Yeah.. my weirdness borderlines autism and for the most part, no one is interested in hopping on my love train. Low intelligence plays a big role in it as well. At least for me. I'm not clever, or witty.. so no room for any charm to compensate for strange behavior or the fact that I am not exactly the most attractive guy by any means. A makeover wouldn't stop the ugly from showing through. I like many others, still desire companionship. Sexual or otherwise, with people I have no chance of actually getting, or finding common ground with. So I fap to internet porn. Try and work on my crippling anxiety and low self esteem. What worse is being just smart enough to realize just how much of a disadvantage being in this body really is.
You do sound intelligent from your post. So that's something in your favor.
I used to think I was too different for a relationship....but now I don't really worry about it. If a man I like comes into my life, cool. If not, oh well.
Shouldn't base how you feel about yourself on whether you've had a relationship or not.
Validate yourself. Don't let others do it for you.
Or is that just another excuse? I know there's weird girls out there too, but I feel like some people are so weird that there's no match for them. And the whole "you just need to find the right girl/guy" excuse doesn't apply to these kind of people. A few people have said I resemble from Kramer from Seinfeld. I know he's a fictional character, but as you know if you watch the show, he was perpetually single and in my opinion it was due to his weirdness. So what do you guys think?
It's more than likely if you decide to just be yourself and ignore the "norm" you may find yourself meeting the most stimulating and interesting people in the world.
It's more than likely if you decide to just be yourself and ignore the "norm" you may find yourself meeting the most stimulating and interesting people in the world.
Plus you'll be a lot happier.
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