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That being said, I don't bother much with "dating" in western world because I find most women worth of a despise. Men as well. I mean, they're good to be friends, good to be work colleagues. But I just don't see vast majority as marriage material. I don't know how they succeed it, but I guess that's why there are so many failures. I'd rather never marry and go for surrogacy, to tell you seriously... I mean, it costs just 20,000. If you want children you'll save up money anyways, and pregnancy will cost you a lot as well, either in unpaid salaries that your wife would lose, medical treatments and other stuff... unless insurance covers it, but it still proves my point. I really can't comprehend it, seriously.
My roots are in the same part of the world as yours. In America it is all about consumption, gluttony and disposal. I am much more comfortable with your numbers than I am with the American ones, as I am one of the few people who is going to understand what you are talking about, but when in Rome ...
Girls in the USA are having sex at 12. Sixteen and pregnant is the new normal for many elements of society. You go to the grocery store and there are tweens with "pink" on their booty shorts. It's insane how hyper-sexual society has become, even in the last 10 years.
If 80% of your happiness is a result of 20% of what your partner does for you,
then 80% of your source of unhappiness can easily be 20% of what your partner does or doesn't do.
Think of all the men you know. How many of them have had more than 4 girls? I can't name more than 3 guys.
Meanwhile, those 3 guys have been around ALOT.
As an example, here are the numbers that my male friends are pulling:
1
2 (me)
1
3
2
30+
40+
30+
2
3
5
2
1
For the girls I know there numbers are:
2
5
10
9
6
15
9
5
6
For women, alot less variance but averages to similar to men (duh! it takes 2 to tango!)
Discuss.
Either you are very very young, or you live in a very scarcely populated area.
Those numbers are ridiculous. I know a few guys that have been with one woman (they married their HS sweetheart)...but the rest have more normal numbers...quite a bit higher than what you listed.
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