Whatever happened to men appreciating good virtuous women? (Christian, marriage, sex)
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Oh, they do... they just like to go out and screw a bunch of women and then they'll choose the virtuous woman to 'settle down' with once they can't get young tail anymore.
But here's the question, how many of these women who have sex with their boyfriends, go on to have an additional 10 or so (possibly more) boyfriends that they also sleep with before settling down? Now that's a scary thought. I'm freaked out by that scenario.
Then you may also wish to examine what makes that scary or freaky to you.
It sounds like you don't enjoy sex. Most people do.
OP, you may wish to examine exactly why you view abstention from sex as good and virtuous. There's nothing wrong with believing that, but you can't expect everyone else to believe it, too, just because you do. It's not exactly rational in the modern world where both men and women can and do enjoy having sex.
I've always viewed my body as a sacred temple. I am very careful about what I eat, and I exercise on a regular basis, to help maintain my size 4 figure. Needless to say, I am uninterested in sleeping with any guy who hasn't committed to me. I have no interest in desecrating my temple.
Many people do not believe in God, but I am not one of those people. I firmly believe that we are here for a reason, and that once this life is done, we will be judged accordingly.
I don't take issue with anyone who believes otherwise, but I'm just frustrated by the fact that it's becoming more and more difficult to find an intelligent/career oriented guy with similar values (as myself).
But here's the question, how many of these women who have sex with their boyfriends, go on to have an additional 10 or so (possibly more) boyfriends that they also sleep with before settling down? Now that's a scary thought. I'm freaked out by that scenario.
I don't know how this freaks you out. It's natural for men and women to go out and have sex with many partners before finding the person they feel most compatible with. It's part of life.
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