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This is a question for men, could you be with a woman who didn't physically enjoy sex but did it anyway because she loved or cared about you as a person??
For one, I would feel bad about asking her for sex knowing she derrived no pleasure for it.
On another level, I would not find the satisfaction in it either, as it would not be the emotional and spiritual bonding experience that would normally be involved (I am assuming this is more of a LTR situation, if the woman cares enough for the man to have sex when it is not pleasurable for her).
It would seem to rob the relationship of one of the highly pleasurable and intimate aspects of having a romantic relationship.
This is a question for men, could you be with a woman who didn't physically enjoy sex but did it anyway because she loved or cared about you as a person??
No. Sex is only enjoyable for me if it's mutually enjoyable. It can't be a chore.
For one, I would feel bad about asking her for sex knowing she derrived no pleasure for it.
On another level, I would not find the satisfaction in it either, as it would not be the emotional and spiritual bonding experience that would normally be involved (I am assuming this is more of a LTR situation, if the woman cares enough for the man to have sex when it is not pleasurable for her).
It would seem to rob the relationship of one of the highly pleasurable and intimate aspects of having a romantic relationship.
It can still be emotional and spiritually bonding if one partner doesn't physically enjoy intercourse...
from the responses I guess its best for someone not to tell their partner they dont physically enjoy sex. it would ruin everything
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No. Sex is only enjoyable for me if it's mutually enjoyable. It can't be a chore.
It can still be emotional and spiritually bonding if one partner doesn't physically enjoy intercourse...
from the responses I guess its best for someone not to tell their partner they dont physically enjoy sex. it would ruin everything
Why don't you enjoy sex? Is it physically painful? Do you have an emotional block? Either of those things can be lessened/remedied. Life's too short to not experience good sex.
It can still be emotional and spiritually bonding if one partner doesn't physically enjoy intercourse...
Maybe... although it would depend on how both partners view and handle the situation. Just thinking from my own viewpoint, and how my wife and I are. I am sure there are plenty of variations, but if one of us did not like intercourse, it would significantly impact and change our intimacy. Could we work through it? Maybe.
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from the responses I guess its best for someone not to tell their partner they dont physically enjoy sex. it would ruin everything
Well... I am not sure that is the best advice. Being honest about it might be the avenue to finding a way to be intimate with your partner in a very enjoyable and satisfying way, which may never be discovered if you hide this info from him.
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I am sure there are plenty of variations, but if one of us did not like intercourse, it would significantly impact and change our intimacy. Could we work through it? Maybe.