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Old 01-23-2013, 06:01 PM
 
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he talks to me all the time via text messages, or calls me or casual facebook chat....we also hang out at the same places so he has asked to see me some times...but with his and my friends, never alone
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Old 01-23-2013, 06:04 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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he talks to me all the time via text messages, or calls me or casual facebook chat....we also hang out at the same places so he has asked to see me some times...but with his and my friends, never alone
Ignore his text messages
Ignore his phone calls
Unfriend him on facebook
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Old 01-23-2013, 06:07 PM
 
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i've tried to but i just like him so much :/
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Old 01-23-2013, 06:10 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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i've tried to but i just like him so much :/
Then you deserve what you get.
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Old 01-23-2013, 06:22 PM
 
Location: Funkotron, MA
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I love it when people start a thread asking for advice and then completely ignore the advice that everyone is giving. This seems especially true when EVERYONE is giving the same advice.
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Old 01-23-2013, 06:37 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Hey! So please bare with me cause this one is long... So, i'm 23 and there's this guy who's 20. He really liked me during the summer and kept me asking me out but I always rejected him...that was until we went for vacation at the same place and got to know him much better...and he really got me!! So I decided to talk to him and tell him I liked him...but then he rejected me. After that incident, he's been treating me really bad..meaning he was playing me, tried to make me think that something would eventually happen between us, but then never did. Also, he keeps trying to make me jealous. And that makes me so angry.....I understand that he could want to get back at me, like a revenge or something...but he wouldn't possibly go through all this trouble for someone he didn't still like. He has showed signs of jealousy too for this guy friend of mine who's always around me. What's your opinion?
He needs to grow up. You don't need the aggravation. Move on.
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Old 01-23-2013, 06:40 PM
 
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Hey! So please bare with me cause this one is long... So, i'm 23 and there's this guy who's 20. He really liked me during the summer and kept me asking me out but I always rejected him...that was until we went for vacation at the same place and got to know him much better...and he really got me!! So I decided to talk to him and tell him I liked him...but then he rejected me. After that incident, he's been treating me really bad..meaning he was playing me, tried to make me think that something would eventually happen between us, but then never did. Also, he keeps trying to make me jealous. And that makes me so angry.....I understand that he could want to get back at me, like a revenge or something...but he wouldn't possibly go through all this trouble for someone he didn't still like. He has showed signs of jealousy too for this guy friend of mine who's always around me. What's your opinion?
depends on how hard you rejected him. he's probably getting back at you if your turn downs were blatant enough. on the other hand, if he's not it means he's petty and kind of immature. either way he sounds like he's still dating using high school rules: tell him to grow up. if he doesn't tell him to take a swan dive out of your life. incidentally, he also sounds like a player type who enjoys the "chase" for chase sake, and the consequence that result from playing with people's emotions. I did it once myself, but I was only 13 years old. he's juvenile. don't waste your time.
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Old 01-24-2013, 09:55 AM
 
Location: The Valley of the Sun
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Sounds to me like you missed the boat and he is bent out of shape after being rejected multiple times. Now he's trying to hurt your feelings like you hurt his.
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Old 01-24-2013, 10:08 AM
 
Location: California
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How about just forgetting about him and delete him from existance. Unless you still want to e friends and just end the teasing.
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Old 01-24-2013, 10:13 AM
 
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Hey! So please bare with me cause this one is long... So, i'm 23 and there's this guy who's 20. He really liked me during the summer and kept me asking me out but I always rejected him...that was until we went for vacation at the same place and got to know him much better...and he really got me!! So I decided to talk to him and tell him I liked him...but then he rejected me. After that incident, he's been treating me really bad..meaning he was playing me, tried to make me think that something would eventually happen between us, but then never did. Also, he keeps trying to make me jealous. And that makes me so angry.....I understand that he could want to get back at me, like a revenge or something...but he wouldn't possibly go through all this trouble for someone he didn't still like. He has showed signs of jealousy too for this guy friend of mine who's always around me. What's your opinion?
Sounds as if both of you need to grow up. Put distance between you and this guy.
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