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Why is the guy an automatic douchebag? People jump to conclusions so fast on here.
She rejected him, she probably dated some other guy or guys, even then he still was nice and friendly to her, but now that she is considering him her option C or D, he doesn't want to deal. What the heck did she expect?
Hopefully the girl learned a lesson on how to pick a man.
I think there's probably more to this story. Like something that you're unaware of that is bothering him.
Or maybe he's just immature and doesn't know how to handle all these feelings.
I guess it could be that he's over you (some people's blood runs cold after you reject them) and just enjoying the revenge.
You're so right. There is definitely something more that's bothering him, but I've pushed him many times and he didn't wanna say. I can't push forever. I mean, it's fine if he doesn't want me, it's not the first time someone rejects me, but the fact that he sticks around and plays with me is just so unfair.
Hey! So please bare with me cause this one is long... So, i'm 23 and there's this guy who's 20. He really liked me during the summer and kept me asking me out but I always rejected him...that was until we went for vacation at the same place and got to know him much better...and he really got me!! So I decided to talk to him and tell him I liked him...but then he rejected me. After that incident, he's been treating me really bad..meaning he was playing me, tried to make me think that something would eventually happen between us, but then never did. Also, he keeps trying to make me jealous. And that makes me so angry.....I understand that he could want to get back at me, like a revenge or something...but he wouldn't possibly go through all this trouble for someone he didn't still like. He has showed signs of jealousy too for this guy friend of mine who's always around me. What's your opinion?
Can you give us an example of how he has treated you badly?
a few days after he rejected me, he started making me believe that something could happen between us. kept calling and texting and teeling me he wanted to meet, but we never actually did go on a date..just casually met when he was with his friends..he said that, because he was going to study in another city, he didn't want to start a relationship..and then one day i find out he started a relationship with someone else.
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Hey! So please bare with me cause this one is long... So, i'm 23 and there's this guy who's 20. He really liked me during the summer and kept me asking me out but I always rejected him...that was until we went for vacation at the same place and got to know him much better...and he really got me!! So I decided to talk to him and tell him I liked him...but then he rejected me. After that incident, he's been treating me really bad..meaning he was playing me, tried to make me think that something would eventually happen between us, but then never did. Also, he keeps trying to make me jealous. And that makes me so angry.....I understand that he could want to get back at me, like a revenge or something...but he wouldn't possibly go through all this trouble for someone he didn't still like. He has showed signs of jealousy too for this guy friend of mine who's always around me. What's your opinion?
I'd chalk this up to what a young and dumb guy does sometimes. The problem is I also see what a (nothing personal) young and dumb girl does sometimes by even entertaining this behavior from a guy. Best thing is to stay away from him until he acts like he has a clue.
a few days after he rejected me, he started making me believe that something could happen between us. kept calling and texting and teeling me he wanted to meet, but we never actually did go on a date..just casually met when he was with his friends..he said that, because he was going to study in another city, he didn't want to start a relationship..and then one day i find out he started a relationship with someone else.
Here is a life long lesson for you: when a man says he doesn't want to start a relationship, it always means with YOU in particular. Now maybe he means all women on the planet in addition to you, but for sure he is talking about you in the very least. He didn't treat you badly, he merely rejected you. Time to move on!
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up to what a young and dumb guy does sometimes. The problem is I also see what a (nothing personal) young and dumb girl does sometimes by even entertaining this behavior from a guy. Best thing is to stay away from him until he acts like he has a clue.
