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Old 01-23-2013, 09:26 PM
 
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I've never had a virgin before.

That should be fun.
I wouldn't say it's "fun..."
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Old 01-23-2013, 10:57 PM
 
Location: California
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People ask that kind of thing in a serious tone?
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Old 01-23-2013, 11:07 PM
 
Location: U.S.
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I don't understand why anyone would want to know how many partners their SO or potential SO has had before them.

I figure it's one of those 'don't ask, don't tell' kind of deals.
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Old 01-23-2013, 11:08 PM
 
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It feels like I'm a damn virgin again, since I haven't dated or slept with a woman in about 3 years now.

Still, I don't think I've ever lied about my number of partners before to get someone's attention. I don't honestly care about your number as long as it doesn't sound like you go through men like a fat guy going through candy bars.
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Old 01-23-2013, 11:12 PM
 
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Who honestly cares tho?

I don't.

Not for any particular reason. I just think everyone's had a "phase"

*shrugs*
My past girlfriends have asked me numerous times and, of course, I always gave a number significantly lower than my estimate, and I don't feel bad about it at all.

And why should I? I know two things, I'm clean and it's none of their business.
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Old 01-23-2013, 11:13 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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My past girlfriends have asked me numerous times and, of course, I always gave a number significantly lower than my estimate, and I don't feel bad about it at all.

And why should I? I know two things, I'm clean and it's none of her business.
It's lying.

Why aren't you man enough to be honest?
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Old 01-23-2013, 11:15 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Anyone who asks or cares to know how many partners you've had is highly insecure, or mentally 17 years old. Possibly both. Aren't we all adults here?
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Old 01-23-2013, 11:18 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Anyone who asks or cares to know how many partners you've had is highly insecure, or mentally 17 years old. Possibly both. Aren't we all adults here?
I usually agree with you, but this time I don't.


I agree that it doesn't MATTER how many people a person has had sex with. Just like it doesn't matter what their favorite color is. But asking someone's favorite color doesn't make someone insecure or mentally 17 years old.

Deciding they shouldn't date because their favorite color is blue...that's a little odd.
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Old 01-23-2013, 11:19 PM
 
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It's lying.

Why aren't you man enough to be honest?
I'm man enough not to ask them about their personal business If one insists it's a safety issue, then I have no problem providing test results. Beyond that, the question is rude and intrusive.
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Old 01-23-2013, 11:21 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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. Beyond that, the question is rude and intrusive.
Then be man enough to tell them that instead of lying to them.
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