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View Poll Results: Would you be a sugar daddy, giving up a more loving, committed relationship for fresh meat?
Yes 36 30.00%
No 84 70.00%
Voters: 120. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-19-2013, 04:21 AM
 
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I'm curious how many of you men in you're 30's to 50's would prefer to spend a lot of money on what is basically a prostitute of college age, rather than have a true love romance and committed partnership with someone closer to your age and about as intelligent?

I'm 21 and apparently females in my age bracket are all like, yay, of course I'll pimp myself out for money! I have a boyfriend who is 13 years older, and he doesn't even take me out to dinner, let alone buy me flowers because he's poor. The idea of a sugar daddy has appealed to me just because I do appreciate the fine life, but I'd rather get an honest job and work my way up through education because that dynamic is so heartless and superficial. And having a partner who loves me more for my personality than my physical self is preferred. All you (sugar daddy) men want is fresh meat, and aren't willing to put the time and effort into cultivating a lasting and loving relationship with a more mature woman. When I'm older, in my 30's let's say, and see a lot of men my age disinterested in a committed relationship with someone like me because they want someone just out of high school I think I will be sickened. Girls my age, even girls I know, are becoming prostitutes so they can be lazy. I bet older women are disgusted by the lack of morals and self-respect (to be willing to exploit themselves) of younger women like myself, and feel I should do them a favor by not adding myself to the pool of young whores.

I wonder, if my own boyfriend became rich, would he leave me for someone younger, who he wouldn't have to commit to? Probably.

I'm a cynical person, but also a realistic person. I bet most men would prefer to be a sugar daddy given the chance.

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Old 02-19-2013, 04:23 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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I find nothing honorable or gentlemanly about being a sugar daddy so no.
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Old 02-19-2013, 04:24 AM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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I bet most men would prefer to be a sugar daddy given the chance. Am I right? Probably.
No chance.

I refuse to buy anyone.
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Old 02-19-2013, 04:26 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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30's here and no, prostitutes don't interest or appeal to me.
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Old 02-19-2013, 04:28 AM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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Not me. If I built up a small fortune I would certainly not waste it on frivolous love. I don't even think "love" is the right word for that. If I have to pay someone to stay, it certainly isn't love. I suppose "convenience" would be a better word.
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Old 02-19-2013, 04:29 AM
 
Location: Canada
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No, I refuse to support another adult like that financially, and I won't have sex with someone I don't consider an adult. I'm charming enough that if I were that age, and also rich, I'm sure I could find a woman who was both sexy and willing without too much difficulty. The idea of such an asymetric relationship turns me off, I wouldn't enjoy that power dynamic although I know that some men do. But I need an equal.
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Old 02-19-2013, 04:35 AM
 
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Yay for you guys. Cynicism decreased!
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Old 02-19-2013, 04:37 AM
 
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Originally Posted by djohanna View Post
I'm curious how many of you men in you're 30's to 50's would prefer to spend a lot of money on what is basically a prostitute of college age, rather than have a true love romance and committed partnership with someone closer to your age and about as intelligent?

I'm 21 and apparently females in my age bracket are all like, yay, of course I'll pimp myself out for money! I have a boyfriend who is 13 years older, and he doesn't even take me out to dinner, let alone buy me flowers because he's poor. The idea of a sugar daddy has appealed to me, but I also so heartless and superficial. All you (sugar daddy) men want is fresh meat, and aren't willing to put the time and effort into cultivating a lasting and loving relationship with a more mature woman. When I'm older, in my 30's let's say, and see a lot of men my age disinterested in a committed relationship with someone like me because they want someone just out of high school I think I will be sickened. Girls my age, even girls I know, are becoming prostitutes rather than working an honest job. I bet older women are disgusted by the lack of morals and self-respect of younger women like myself, and feel I should do them a favor by not adding myself to the pool of young whores.

I wonder, if my own boyfriend became rich, would he leave me for someone younger, who he wouldn't have to commit to? Probably.

I'm a cynical person, but also a realistic person. I bet most men would prefer to be a sugar daddy given the chance.
I'd take an 80 year old woman who loved me for myself over a 20 year old woman who even glanced too long at my wallet.
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Old 02-19-2013, 05:11 AM
 
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do you know how valuable money is?
i'm not wasting it on gifts...pshh..
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Old 02-19-2013, 05:48 AM
 
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No way. Conversation is as important to me as sex. The last thing I'd want to do is shell out thousands every month on some vapid twenty-something only to have her not relate to me in the least after we'd finished our twice-a-week session of huffing and puffing.
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