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If you're say, looking at shoes and she says "no don't buy those, my ex had some like that", it's fine and normal as she has a past like we all do and it's no big deal.
If you're looking at shoes and she says "buy these, they're just like Fred's" then you've got a problem.
If she goes into a diatribe about Fred's choice of footwear, clothing, what he said about her new shoes etc , then you've also got a problem.
If she says "I think I'm going to buy these shoes for Fred, can you give me some money?" you need to run the other way.
I don't bring up the exes or have her bring them up. I don't want to know and I don't care unless she has a kid, was engaged/married or there was abuse otherwise lets keep it quiet.
This is a good way to lose points. Big downside potential, little upside potential, best generally to avoid.
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