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Old 02-08-2013, 07:38 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Originally Posted by JohnA151 View Post
not tying to get over ANYTHING women cheat and lie just as much as men

so the women gets* free dinner * give a little sex maybe and goes home to her 6 kids & live in lover whos fooling who ?
if a person male or female joins a * dating club* they set themsleves up to be fooled

and that's the problem right there. you think that because someone signs up for a 'dating club' (online dating?) then they are signing up to be lied to and fooled? NO. That's YOUR intentions, dont say everyone thinks they are going to get baited and tricked on an online dating service just because that's how you handle your buisness. Most of the people I've known join those sites for....dates. If you have ulterior motives which looks like you do, that applies only to yourself. Also, I don't recall stating 'women don't cheat,' therefore you pointing out information 'proving' what is already known is pointless.

And yet another man equating a 'dinner' with sex as if one has anything at all to do with the other. Typical.
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Old 02-08-2013, 08:07 AM
 
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back off him. he's already lied about his status as being single and he's just seperated not fully divorced. RED FLAG there. and lets say him and his wife work things out where does that put you??
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Old 02-08-2013, 08:15 AM
 
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back off him. he's already lied about his status as being single and he's just seperated not fully divorced. RED FLAG there. and lets say him and his wife work things out where does that put you??
I completely understand that the relationship may not last but neither did any of my relationships with single men, lol, otherwise I wouldn't be dating this guy to begin with. Just sayin'...
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Old 02-08-2013, 08:52 AM
 
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I completely understand that the relationship may not last but neither did any of my relationships with single men, lol, otherwise I wouldn't be dating this guy to begin with. Just sayin'...
Funny how so many warn about dating someone "separated" because they could go back to the wife when any guy could as easily go back to his ex gf. Anyone can terminate a relationship for any reason. I've pointed that out a few times and no one has had a reasonable response.
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Old 02-08-2013, 09:01 AM
 
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Funny how so many warn about dating someone "separated" because they could go back to the wife when any guy could as easily go back to his ex gf. Anyone can terminate a relationship for any reason. I've pointed that out a few times and no one has had a reasonable response.
Sure, a guy could get back with an ex or dump you for any number of reasons, but I think people are focusing on the more serious legal, financial, and emotional ties one would have with a spouse. I think everyone realizes that there are no guarantees either way, but they're saying why set yourself up for a messy situation to begin with?
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Old 02-08-2013, 09:15 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Funny how so many warn about dating someone "separated" because they could go back to the wife when any guy could as easily go back to his ex gf. Anyone can terminate a relationship for any reason. I've pointed that out a few times and no one has had a reasonable response.

Because the 'reasonable response' is what 'sweet like sugar' just said....obviously the odds of him reconciling with the woman he's already married to sound a hell of a lot more likely then a divorced man going back to his ex wife (although not denying this happens).
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Old 02-08-2013, 09:38 AM
 
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Because the 'reasonable response' is what 'sweet like sugar' just said....obviously the odds of him reconciling with the woman he's already married to sound a hell of a lot more likely then a divorced man going back to his ex wife (although not denying this happens).
You have anything to show it's really more likely than a guy going back to an ex (gf or wife)? I've known a fair number of exes that have gotten back together (or hooked up) where it took a few years and a divorce to remove the issues that were choking the marriage in the first place.
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Old 02-08-2013, 09:55 AM
 
Location: KYLE TEXAS
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and that's the problem right there. you think that because someone signs up for a 'dating club' (online dating?) then they are signing up to be lied to and fooled? NO. That's YOUR intentions, dont say everyone thinks they are going to get baited and tricked on an online dating service just because that's how you handle your buisness. Most of the people I've known join those sites for....dates. If you have ulterior motives which looks like you do, that applies only to yourself. Also, I don't recall stating 'women don't cheat,' therefore you pointing out information 'proving' what is already known is pointless.

And yet another man equating a 'dinner' with sex as if one has anything at all to do with the other. Typical.
As i said in a earlier post ive NEVER used a dating service online or otherwise and never will .
this conversation has gone from a honest intelligent discusion to personal barbs
im not going to post any more on this thread.
believe what you want and read articules posts by folks who have been * taken * in by these type of business
i do have any personal experiance just going bt what i hear and read .. truth will set you free ..
my last post on this matter
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Old 02-08-2013, 11:34 AM
 
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just looking out for you i wouldn't want anything happening to you. as you never know what games people are playing online. i don't belive in online dating been there done that LOL what a nightmare. i find that i do better in person having a nice face to face convo with a babe or buying one a drink or simply giving one a complement. so i am curious why didn't your relaqtionships work out before?
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Old 02-08-2013, 11:45 AM
 
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just looking out for you i wouldn't want anything happening to you. as you never know what games people are playing online. i don't belive in online dating been there done that LOL what a nightmare. i find that i do better in person having a nice face to face convo with a babe or buying one a drink or simply giving one a complement. so i am curious why didn't your relaqtionships work out before?
I guess mainly because of lack of compatibility and the desire to move forward.
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