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Old 01-26-2013, 08:14 PM
 
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NOT a wedding question!

Bachelor parties often involve going to strip shows. I've been to one that was extra raunchy, and I wasn't expecting it. However, considering the host, this shouldn't have been a surprise. If I recall, the groom-to-be got fairly drunk, which wouldn't register, but I am almost sure he got laid, which I would remember.

Have you heard of this happening? What do you think of this situation?
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Old 01-26-2013, 08:16 PM
 
Location: FL
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It's very wrong is what I think.
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Old 01-26-2013, 08:17 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I think it's disgusting and would call off the wedding immediately if I were the bride and found out. If I didn't find out until afterwards, I'd end the marriage as soon as possible.

I don't want to marry someone who has no self control or respect for their partner.
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Old 01-26-2013, 08:18 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Ew.
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Old 01-26-2013, 08:19 PM
 
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My husband didn't have a bachelor party...if I'm remembering correctly he may have gone out to have a few drinks but nothing more than that.

I didn't have a bachelorette party either. I just had no interest in that sort of thing. In my opinion, it's kind of tacky.
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Old 01-26-2013, 08:21 PM
 
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The guy was white collar, in his mid 20s, but a beer guzzling, backslapping kind of guy. Funny guy, but crass. Have no clue if he's still married.
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Old 01-26-2013, 08:26 PM
 
Location: Pa
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It's very disgusting. And if a guy did that to me, we would be done. How would he feel if I got booty "one last time"?
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Old 01-26-2013, 08:27 PM
 
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My buddy's bachelor party consisted of a small dinner thrown for him and his soon-to-be-wife at a mutual friend's house. We got drunk, talked about how excited we were for the wedding and watched some stupid movies. He'd been in the military - as he put it "Why the hell would I want to see more strippers?"

Honestly, I don't get the point of a bachelor/bachelorette party in the traditional sense. I feel like it's just part of the overblown/overpriced wedding industry. You're getting married - you're not getting institutionalized, for ****'s sake.
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Old 01-26-2013, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Originally Posted by robertpolyglot View Post
NOT a wedding question!

Bachelor parties often involve going to strip shows. I've been to one that was extra raunchy, and I wasn't expecting it. However, considering the host, this shouldn't have been a surprise. If I recall, the groom-to-be got fairly drunk, which wouldn't register, but I am almost sure he got laid, which I would remember.

Have you heard of this happening? What do you think of this situation?
Indefensible.

[and disrespectful]
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Old 01-26-2013, 08:38 PM
 
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It's a stupid move and best man shares blame for not being the best friend groom needs at the moment becuase everyone there will know, it can/will cause hurtful drama, and really calls the commitment into scrutiny among friends and family, and can ruin your relationship and marital bliss. There are other smarter opportunities that can give a guy a fix without causing a disaster.

Yeah, there are lots of real life stories about bachelor parties causing up a relationship stir from the onset.
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