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you should have asked for his number...plain and simple..
you girls like to say- its the guys place, and maybe sometimes it is,,,but in this similar situation, when a girl is being friendly, most of us guys have asked, only to be met with "omg omg i try to be nice to you, talk with you and you want to hump my leg"?? or, the night goes great, both are flirtatious, the guy gets close to asking her out, and she suddenly says " heyyyy my finacee is here!! come say hi"
so you are glad you didnt ask..
I agree with this post!
I do understand the womens aspect a bit. But the OP's situation is one in which she REALLY likes a guy. This isn't, "I donno, he seems cool, but..." This more like, "I LIKE this guy!" And if there was THAT much contact between you two, he likes you also. Asking his number here only helps, not hurts. He may be thinking, maybe she is flirty, and does this with everyone, so I'm just some other guy to her. When in reality, you LIKE him. And now, you have to be patient and HOPE you see him again.
What will you do NEXT time this happens? I don't know about you, but that connection you had doesn't come by very often for me. But everyone is different.
A nice little personal off-white card with your name and phone number would help. As you leave, "heres my card, call me sometime and we can go for drinks." Or "Call me sometime, I would like to hear more about your ___________."
Thing about a card, part of you is headed home with him. It may sit on his counter, etc. Good advice for guys as well.
Something about the ripped corner of paper napkin, just a number & no name (they forget), crumpled up in the pocket doesn't leave a good memory.
I do understand the womens aspect a bit. But the OP's situation is one in which she REALLY likes a guy. This isn't, "I donno, he seems cool, but..." This more like, "I LIKE this guy!" And if there was THAT much contact between you two, he likes you also. Asking his number here only helps, not hurts. He may be thinking, maybe she is flirty, and does this with everyone, so I'm just some other guy to her. When in reality, you LIKE him. And now, you have to be patient and HOPE you see him again.
What will you do NEXT time this happens? I don't know about you, but that connection you had doesn't come by very often for me. But everyone is different.
Yes!! For some reason guys think I'm flirty all the time. It didn't occur to me that might be why they don't really pursue.
Well, I'm trying not to push it too much. Yes, this connection doesn't happen very often. I'm pretty sure it was not accident. I thought that at first too, so I got up to see what would happen. And when I sat back down, his legs were like magnets to my legs, attracted. I guess I was pretty sure he would ask for my number, that's why it didn't occur to me to ask, but I will ask next time I see him.
I guess I could've asked for his number but I didn't want to be doing all the work,
Good chance if you're chasing a guy... You want his number. And to be honest i'd be the same way. Most of the time i'm not going to be the one to ask for the number if you're interested you should ask for the number yourself. Don't wait on others. Just get right into it .
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