Pursuing an Older man, Is it worth it? (date, calling, picture)

[Chadd1014]

Originally Posted by Sharky2Sharks

Yeah I really like him. But all of the signs...

You could always turn this around and have him worship you in a BSDM type of relationship I suppose.

Just sit down with him and lay out the rules, which are anything you say goes.

You'll have him sucking your toes in no time.

[MsAnnThrope]

Originally Posted by Chadd1014

You could always turn this around and have him worship you in a BSDM type of relationship I suppose.

Just sit down with him and lay out the rules, which are anything you say goes.

You'll have him sucking your toes in no time.

Precisely.

[MIKEETC]

Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope

Well, it's not like your dance card is full, right? What's one date?

I mean, you've got nothing to lose. If he is a emotional train wreck you will find out pretty damn quickly and press eject.

You could have a heck of a lot of fun in the meantime.

Remember, the divorce rate is sky high, even when folks "tick every box" on paper.

I can agree with this.

[no deep sea diving - stay at the shallow end for a bit...]

[Sharky2Sharks]

Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope

Well, it's not like your dance card is full, right? What's one date?

I mean, you've got nothing to lose. If he is a emotional train wreck you will find out pretty damn quickly and press eject.

You could have a heck of a lot of fun in the meantime.

Remember, the divorce rate is sky high, even when folks "tick every box" on paper.

I do love to have fun.

[MsAnnThrope]

Originally Posted by Sharky2Sharks

I do love to have fun.

Heh.

Atta girl.

Go and jump his old sad bones. Give him something to smile about.

[jma501]

It's the possible drinking problem that bothers me. Heavy drinkers can be verbally and even physically abusive. the only one who can fix the problem is the drinker himself. please verify whether he is a heavy drinker before you decide to have a relationship with him

[Elained10]

Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope

Heh.

Atta girl.

Go and jump his old sad bones. Give him something to smile about.

Hahaha

[lastwomanstanding]

NO NO NO . You do not want to waste your time with this old dude. Trust me, you could wake up next to him 10 years from now as his wife wishing for divorce. Dating at 38 much worse than dating at 28. Please do not ruin your life with this guy! Please no.

[jma501]

Get a clue. 45 is NOT old. stop making stupid assumptions.

[BirdieBelle]

Worst case scenario: jail time for at least one person in this situation

Best case scenario: Jerry Springer