What is going on with people here? (women, sex, advice)
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Why are people so angry? Why do people feel the need to be on the attack 24/7? I remember when City-Data was a place where people could come together and solve problems, get advice, give advice.
After reading some of the threads here I went back to the time when I was a couple of months new here, needing info on some cities in North Carolina. There was an area which is now Other Topics, I think, where people could post things other than about cities and a group of friends emerged. Then there was Relationships.
It was a pretty light-hearted area and people would share their issues hoping to get some advice.
I opened up my life to people here and it became a day-to-day thing. People came and gave their advice and their heart-felt comments on the matter. People showed that they had hearts and souls and that they actually cared about other people and how they felt and what happened to them in life.
The things coming through here this day are just awful. I do not understand all of the hatred against the sexes and the different races and sexes going on here.
Cita-Data actually can become the place it once was if people took a minute to think of who they are and who they want to be. Take some time to think about the respect you would like to be given, then give out that same respect.
If you don't have anything nice to say, then say nothing at all! If you don't have any experience in the matter but wish the person well, tell them so!
I went through an awful time in my life and I shared it here from day to day and I met some wonderful friends. As the days went by and I was able to share my walks and the emotions that came from them I came across many wonderful people and let me tell you, they had my back. They let me open up and learn that life could be better. I couldn't wait to share, and in my opinion, they couldn't wait to see what was happening.
Through the eyes of C-D my life changed from day to day. Many of the people who were there back then are still here, but probably the same amount are gone due to the behavior going on here these days.
It is my hope in this new year that people can turn it around and behave like respecting adults. Give out what you want to get back. Treat people as you would like to be treated and just leave the hatred and racism at the door before you walk in.
This can be as easy as taking your shoes off at the door so you don't track dirt through the house.
Can we just quit tracking the dirt that is your hatred through this home which is C-D?
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Some have too much damn time on their hands. I've spent less time on C-D because I've gotten busier with dates, going out, living life, etc. I think the quality of my posts have increased too since I can't make as many as in the past.
If I read anymore threads that stereotype women I am going to scream. I don't know many women like these posters claim who can be as nasty and weird as possible and get the best guys or anything else they want.
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